"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guys who claimed they have never been rejected in their life

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vonbock

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Every now and then I meet a guy who claims never to have been rejected.
I alwyas ask, since you first started asking girls out, every girl has said yes to you. Is this feasible, or every guy out there from Brad Pitt to your local playboy has been rejected at least once.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SmoothTalker

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It's certainly possible if they never ask someone out until they are SURE they're interested, and ask a small number of people out in total.

I mean, technically I haven't ever been rejected so far. Doesn't mean I'm a master PUA, just means that so far in my limited experience, the girls I asked wouldn't even have considered saying no. But that doesn't occur too often.
 
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SmoothTalker said:
It's certainly possible if they never ask someone out until they are SURE they're interested, and ask a small number of people out in total.

I mean, technically I haven't ever been rejected so far. Doesn't mean I'm a master PUA, just means that so far in my limited experience, the girls I asked wouldn't even have considered saying no. But that doesn't occur too often.
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exactly!!! i have never been rejected before because i dont ask for a girls number unless i am like 95% sure that i will get it. I could have had so many HOT FINE girls that gave me IOI's but i wasnt 100% sure so i never went for the number. Trust me i am anything but a DJ due to this. Just because someone says they never been rejected doesnt mean they are the best.

I am actually working on changing this. I wouldnt mind getting rejected coupla times so i can get used to it lol.
 
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I've been rejected dozens of times, and that is why I consider myself a success.

I have had those big wins and losses and no what each feels like.

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Its funny how girls have different ways of rejecting you. I had my first experience the other day. Girl gave me number. Wait 3 days, call at 6, left a VM for her to call back. She call me back next day at 3pm during work hours, of course I can't pick up, so she leaves vm. I call back at 6pm and again she doesn't pick up. I call back next day and left VM to thank her and sister for getting us into club previous week and that was it. Nor more calls from me after that. I wonder why she even called back in the 1st place and left message.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If he hasn't been rejected then he probably hasn't pushed himself out of his comfort zone. Figure out how often he approaches women, if the women are all the same type, and where he approaches them.

Different people have different definitions of both approach and rejection. Finally, people lie. Men who cold approach women get rejected. Even Brad Pitt has been rejected -- before he was a movie star he was a furniture mover and a mascot for El Pollo Loco (restaurant chain). There was an article in People about how he was not meeting girls before he became big and would go to Hollywood parties and be kind of a loser.
 
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Only the guys that don't approach haven't been rejected jet ..
Without rejections nobody won't be mPUA, because everybody learn from mistakes ..
It's cool to be rejected ... :D
 
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vonbock said:
Every now and then I meet a guy who claims never to have been rejected.
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... key word being.. Claims ..:yawn:
 
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