"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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frivolousz21

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its not the most easy thing to deal with :)

I am in the process of this:

I read wyldfire's 4 steps to an LTR

and we are past the infactuation stage..and getting into the deep emotional connection stage.

its a diff feeling that lust.

a feeling of passion..a care like i have for my boys and family.

I have been sharing more of the tougher decisions with her, telling her some of the reasons I tick and tock the way I do. and letting her read me to a point that as my best friend can help me when I need help without asking..because ill never ask :)


and this is all natural...and one of hte greatest feelings you will ever have.

wether it lasts for 100 yrs or 10 min....this by far blows away antyhing with any women ur not connected to.

so for all you mates who just want pyssy....think again :)

just know it can end at anytime..and be prepared to pick urself back up :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thanks man!

the only thing is..she is killing my halo 2 skills! :)


not getting as much time in..

I hit level 30..now im a 28..and dropping
 
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