I've been meeting the majority of women I've been dating online, I've met some good ones, but they are few and far between. I've been going to club's in my area in S Florida, there are mostly girls in their early 20's which is fine for playthings but I prefer relationships.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Guys who are 40+ where are you most successful meeting women?
- Thread starter Willard
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Rollo Tomassi
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If you can do solid Day Game, any Panera Bread (especially in Central / South Florida) around lunchtime on a weekday is a ƒucking gold mine.
It's the perfect opportunity for an 'insta-date' and it's also got a time limit (gotta get back to work) so it's perfect for leaving her hanging, or hoping you'll show up the next day or the day after.
Your welcome
It's the perfect opportunity for an 'insta-date' and it's also got a time limit (gotta get back to work) so it's perfect for leaving her hanging, or hoping you'll show up the next day or the day after.
Your welcome
LiveFreeX
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Or you can just GO ABROAD and meet some foreign women who can cook, clean and be greatful for the little things.
resilient
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I never understood Panera Bread. It's like a cult or something. The gender ratio is 90/10. I don't get what that's always about. A Mexican fast food chain near me even remodeled all their locations to the Panera look. Down to earth. Adult top 40 music. Notice no mariachi music? Heh. They want people to stay a while and chit chat, etc.
Scaramouche
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Dear Willard,
Nothing can compare to the Dance floor....but one may not be too promiscuous...Next best is the Public Library....Asian Groceries...The internet is a waste of time!
Nothing can compare to the Dance floor....but one may not be too promiscuous...Next best is the Public Library....Asian Groceries...The internet is a waste of time!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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If you want to simply get laid, www.meetup.com.
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Today I am going on the prowl at the flea market.. I like them Latinas.
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Crazy as it sounds, someone the other day told me Club Space is an older crowd and real good for forty somethings now...Willard said:
I second Panera Bread also, it really is an anomaly there. The one in Boca is off the chain during lunch.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
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Whatever your expertise in life happens to be, find a woman who is interested in that subject, and she will immediately see value in you.
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On the weekends stop by a Home Goods store or a TJ Maxx. Those stores are crawling with women. Find a target and ask for some decorating help or make a comment about an object she's looking at....
SgtSplacker
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The whole town of Boca is filled with huge boobed MILFs and cougars.Espi said:
Everyone has plastic surgery here, everyone owns (or at least owned) a BMW. And that describes Boca in one sentence.
Where this area really opens up is by the beach. Everyone is really friendly for South Florida. Pretty girls will chat you up in a bar there no problem.
The Whole Foods in Boca is epic and leaves Panera in the dust. <== I fully understand the weight of this statement. It's the same girls in a bigger venue wearing work out clothes and spandex FTW.
I have actually considered taking a part time in the Whole Foods. Enterprise Virtualization Network Admin by day, bag boy by night, fuuck it. So what if I would be earning 1/5 of my salary? MILFs and boobiez makes it a good decision by me.
If you ever come down this way let me know and i'll share and possibly escort you to some of my SgtSplacker certified honey holes...
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I am having a kill with women from particpating in long distance hikes from MEETUP.COM
Second source is from mutual classes/workshops from my personal hobby that has 90% women ratio to 10% men and for some reason they all forget they are married or has a boyfriend suddenly.
Exodus
Second source is from mutual classes/workshops from my personal hobby that has 90% women ratio to 10% men and for some reason they all forget they are married or has a boyfriend suddenly.
Exodus
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I bet it's making jewelry, GotED! loves those granny cougars.Frogster said:
Meetup is a goldmine as he said. It is much more effective than cold approaching because they women there are also out to meet new people. I always approach with a fun and excited attitude. Be wild and carefree, have silly conversations. Get everyone at the event to like you and you will have your pickings near closing time. "Keep in touch" with your prospects and hit them up for a drink or two. I've had TONS more success now than when I did online dating. Maybe I'm just ugly.
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Frogster said:
GAY PORN.
LOL - no, spiritual new age type of stuff such as meditation, yoga, holistic things.
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Reading this today I went and hung out at a Panera bread about 1:30. Still lots of chicks but all either too young, old or married. But I'll go back... I need a day game win!!