"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bjj_playa

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i met a chick last week...we talked in person twice since then..i see her at school. i heard from one of her friends that shes a flirt and she does this to lots of guys..dont know how true it is. but anyway shes been showing ALOT of interst these past two days...to the point where im kinda freaked out. i got literally 18 text msgs from her today...just random stuff. she called me tonight we talked for 10 mins...then she called again but i didnt answer. i heard from her friend though that shes not interseted or "nothings gona happen"

if this is the case..wtf is going on in her head to be showing all this interest?...should i just try to go in for the lay...she does have an awesome ass....

eh, has this happened to anyone here...i've never seen someone get all this excited about me in this short amount of time
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let's call her Jessica to make things easy. Oftentimes, in high school, friends of girls are often skeptical. I wouldn't trust Jessica's friend, personally. They like to cover things up. As a guy, I don't always trust my best friend's girlfriends, but usually because they're not exactly geniuses. Back to your situation, I wouldn't deny she's a flirt, but if she's a flirt, then isn't she looking for something? If someone else can offer better advice to this guy than mine, please do so. Mine really wasn't too substantial, to tell you the truth. Best of luck to you.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 
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Well, first don't put too much value in the friends advice. Trust your gut, if it feels genuine go for it. Its okay if she's a flirt, just make sure she's not a slut or attention wh***.

If you want her, be careful not to fall head over heels, she may be trying to play you or seduce you because she realizes her power as a woman, so give her a little bit of attention, then take it all away, aka, keep away or if you want to dive in head first, ask her out or invite her to go somewhere with you.
 
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k well somewhat of an update with this one....

we made plans to go to see a movie...well she was going to see a movie with her friend and she invited me. so its going to be them two and me. not sure how comfortable im goign to be with her friend there, i would have prefered to chill just the two of us but i think im going to just go with them. she's been calling me almost everyday, so it seems like shes interested..but i dunno, shes a weird one. not too sure what it is yet. good for experience though, also has a great ass...so yea
 
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