"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does wearing glasses hurt your game with women?

I keep thinking women look cute and sexy with glasses but as for men wearing glasses i just keep thinking about computer nerds and wimpy guys. imho i think women aren't attracted to men wearing glasses i think it gives them a vibe of weakness dunno, just what i've heard from some women commments where i work.

Unfortunately i will have to start using glasses because of vision problems that came back at the age of 35. Wearing contacts is not an option said the doc so i will have to stick with glasses that may or may not look good on me and improve my facial features.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Soyoushave

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Uglyfrustratedchump said:
Unfortunately i will have to start using glasses because of vision problems that came back at the age of 35. Wearing contacts is not an option said the doc so i will have to stick with glasses that may or may not look good on me and improve my facial features.
Not that you should do it for that reason, but if you really don't want to wear glasses, I can give you some alternatives.
Could you tell me what your eye-problem is? If you can't wear contact lenses, maybe a lens-implantation is an option?
 

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dude, before you worry about wearing glasses or not, determine and dedicate to yourself that you will grow big (not like fat) and strong in the gym. i risked my abs to become bigger and am eating a lot of carbs+protein. and i still have abs.

i gained 8-9 lbs in 5 days, can lift a heck lot more, and girls respond differently to me than before. but best of all, training grows not only the physique but also the inner self. it makes ur outlook and maturity deeper, if you are busting a$$. of course if you're just shallow guy,you would say "im toned and good the way i am", then you're just regular joe whose life is about submitting to pain.
 
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@Soyoushave

The doctor found that i have myopia and intermitent exotropia (some kind of strabismus that is only noticeable in situations of stress, illness, etc) on my left eye which used to be normal some years ago. Strange thing is i had strabismus when i was 5 or 6 and it dissapeared completely by using glasses. Now that i have to use the glasses to cure it again (or maybe a surgery is an option too) i don't feel as confortable as when as i was younger. But moneyisking advice of bulking up may help a bit as well as choosing the right glasses for my face.
 

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I wear glasses. Spend on your glasses, mine cost me £200, you can get really decent stylish ones, coke bottle glasses are for nerds, raybans are for people with taste
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PDubb75

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I agree with moneyisking. Nobody is gonna think a guy in good shape is weak because he has glasses.

Clothing style can contribute greatly, as well. You can find plenty of guys modeling clothes in magazines that are wearing glasses. Sometimes glasses really fit, and there are even guys that get non-prescription frames for the look.

Getting in really good shape takes time. Looking into stylish frames and clothing styles are a nearly immediate change (assuming you have the funds). That way, you will start getting that confidence back with your glasses while you are working towards the physique. In my opinion, that will just push you to get in shape even more. Nothing is more motivating than seeing results quickly.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Watch the YouTube video

E-40 would be slapping you right now!!!.

OP glasses just bring more attention to your eyes. If anything they add a subtle classy look to you. Sometimes it's lame when people don't need perscription glasses, and they wear them. I personally don't, but I have on like two occasions and both times I was complimented by, many, pretty youngs things about me looking studly.

The nerdy look is in right now anyway.??

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-71Qyp1vBGyI/TViV7A-YgzI/AAAAAAAAHLs/WSKR1ZSC8UY/s1600/Marvin+Gaye+glasses.jpg

http://live.drjays.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/79140aa6.jpg

http://vonnie7708.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/image4.png

http://www.mtv.com/news/photos/j/glasses_flip/7.jpg

Do these guys look like AFCs to you?
Watch this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WIN83POLjU&feature=channel_video_title

Glasses aren't nerdy. They're just another potential asset to looking good. If you need them to see, look into getting some stylish lenses.
 

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As long as your frames fit your sense of style REALLY well, then you are no different from anyone else.

As long as the glasses are chosen well, this question is no different than "does being tall help your game?" or "does having black hair vs. brown affect your game?"

Ultimately, the more important question is: do you feel insecure while wearing your glasses? If so, then you should probably look for contact or some pair of rims that'll make you feel like a PIMP. Really, some women don't like glasses and some do - it's the same as any other attribute about a guy. The biggest factor is how you wear them and how you feel about yourself while wearing them.
 

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You know, the doctor told me im far sighted but those damn glasses only magnify my vision a tiny bit so i dont wear them. I'm fine without them.

When i did where them, i got alot of compliments from people i would just meet. From people who knew me, i never recieved a negative comment.

I look at glasses as just another article of clothing. Depending on your features, your stature, etc, you can work some glasses better than other.

Don't worry about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i ware mine all the time.

it didn't matter much. the only time it dose when making out. but i would just throw them on the floor and continue. lol

we would always stop her so i could take them off. but she didn't mind
 
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