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Guys trying to hit on my girl.

Stormblast

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My new girlfriend has a rather large amount of guys after her.

In one of my classes which she is in too, there's this guy who is apparently jealous that she's with me. One day, he neg-hit on her appearance. Then he hugged her as an apology right in front of me. I kept my cool. Right after that, he went up to me, and pretended o give me a nipple twister. I smacked his hand away and gave him a look as he walked away. Apparently this guy's trying to stomp on me because he's jealous. I doubt it will ever get to the point of fighting, but he is bigger and stronger than me. Im a really skinny guy, but I know how to fight. If this dude tries to pull **** like that again, I am going to let him know that I dont appreciate him trying to dog me or touching my girl.

This was just one example. Stuff like this happens often. Im usually pretty chill and don't mind her talking to guys.

If it helps, we are all in 11th grade.

What is the best way to deal with other dudes hitting on my girl?
 

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Originally posted by Stormblast
My new girlfriend has a rather large amount of guys after her.

In one of my classes which she is in too, there's this guy who is apparently jealous that she's with me. One day, he neg-hit on her appearance. Then he hugged her as an apology right in front of me. I kept my cool. Right after that, he went up to me, and pretended o give me a nipple twister. I smacked his hand away and gave him a look as he walked away. Apparently this guy's trying to stomp on me because he's jealous. I doubt it will ever get to the point of fighting, but he is bigger and stronger than me. Im a really skinny guy, but I know how to fight. If this dude tries to pull **** like that again, I am going to let him know that I dont appreciate him trying to dog me or touching my girl.

This was just one example. Stuff like this happens often. Im usually pretty chill and don't mind her talking to guys.

If it helps, we are all in 11th grade.

What is the best way to deal with other dudes hitting on my girl?
The easiest way to go about this is to "not give a fvck".......that guy totaly tooled you though...with the hug apology.

Next time that guy comes in your set...(you and your gf)....say "who is this little **** weasle" *back turn to ur girl immediatly*

Keep it up,
~Smooth
 

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Re: Re: Guys trying to hit on my girl.

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
The easiest way to go about this is to "not give a fvck".......that guy totaly tooled you though...with the hug apology.

Next time that guy comes in your set...(you and your gf)....say "who is this little **** weasle" *back turn to ur girl immediatly*

Keep it up,
~Smooth
I suppose he did

He didn't know we're going out though

Well, learn from mistakes I must
 

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Why does it matter if some fag hits on your *****? Your the best ****in thing to ever happen to her right? Well wether it be true or not, if she believes it, then it shouldn't matter if some fag hits on her.

The way i normally deal with this is i introduce myself to him, shake his hand firmly, give him some, "learn your place" eye contact, and carry on the rest of the conversation lightly, but dominantly, making sure at all times i am the one running the show. Once he sees he's using a cap gun against a nuke, he backs down, gives up, and goes home.
 
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