Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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- Apr 29, 2007
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What does this injection of "my wife" connotate to you? Is he expecting me to say, "Well, MY wife...(says/does this or that)?" Is he saying he thinks I'm a feminine guy because he's trying to relate his "wife" to my situation or thoughts or inquiries? Is he trying to find out if I can use the words "my wife," to find out if I have a "wife" or "have kids" and continue the conversation on common ground. Is he trying to sniff whether we can speak to each other on common ground (same shoes) of being in a ridiculously difficult long-term relationship? and thus see whether I'm strong enough or "tested" or stressed enough as he is?? Is he trying to one-up me if he suspects I'm NOT married? Is he expecting that I may be married because I'm better-than-average looking with a great career, and just trying to confirm his suspicions or "sizing up" of me by saying, "My wife...blah blah blah?"
I'm talking, I kid you not, probably 50 times a year or more I hear from 50 different guys, "My wife..." probably because he no longer can say, "My friend..."
Of course, I hear a lot of "my husband" or "my boyfriend" too on the other side, but that's fine, it's coming out of a female mouth (which we should all take with a grain of salt, mostly, most of the time, what she says - think your hair-dresser bubbling on about crap, not a nuclear scientist rare-1% female, not the majority of females who REFUSE to think logically - major mental retardation block...to stop...re-assess...and reflect --- they'll spend countless seconds, minutes, hours, and forever shutting their minds off to logic or seeing a man's perspective or at least trying to visualize a man's LOGIC -- Most will just say, "Fvck what you say, I won't even THINK on it, and go my own way, and take what YOU say with a grain of salt (because I can't turn on my brain - now, I can FAKE turning on my brain, but now I can't even do that because I'm tired and I don't care))."
I'm talking, I kid you not, probably 50 times a year or more I hear from 50 different guys, "My wife..." probably because he no longer can say, "My friend..."
Of course, I hear a lot of "my husband" or "my boyfriend" too on the other side, but that's fine, it's coming out of a female mouth (which we should all take with a grain of salt, mostly, most of the time, what she says - think your hair-dresser bubbling on about crap, not a nuclear scientist rare-1% female, not the majority of females who REFUSE to think logically - major mental retardation block...to stop...re-assess...and reflect --- they'll spend countless seconds, minutes, hours, and forever shutting their minds off to logic or seeing a man's perspective or at least trying to visualize a man's LOGIC -- Most will just say, "Fvck what you say, I won't even THINK on it, and go my own way, and take what YOU say with a grain of salt (because I can't turn on my brain - now, I can FAKE turning on my brain, but now I can't even do that because I'm tired and I don't care))."
