"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys that constantly praise their gfs on Facebook

tryst type

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You know which guys I'm referring to, the average guy who managed to score a HB8-10 girlfriend.

1/3 of their statuses are about how much they love her, how perfect she is, how lucky they are etc.

Some even post numerous pics of her posing blatantly to show off her good looks.

Of course all these posts generate a bunch of "likes"

How is it these girls put up with that kind of behavior from their boyfriends? I'd imagine it'd become obnoxious and creepy over time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tryst type said:
You know which guys I'm referring to, the average guy who managed to score a HB8-10 girlfriend.

1/3 of their statuses are about how much they love her, how perfect she is, how lucky they are etc.

Some even post numerous pics of her posing blatantly to show off her good looks.

Of course all these posts generate a bunch of "likes"

How is it these girls put up with that kind of behavior from their boyfriends? I'd imagine it'd become obnoxious and creepy over time.
Guys are obviously doing it to show off (just like some guys show off their cars, boats, motorcycles, etc.) Some women actually like being shown off. However, it's a balancing act. Overdoing it will make you look clingy and desperate.
 

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They rank right up there with the never-has-been parents who like to show off their genetic defective children on Facebook. Guess what? No one cares! I guess if you can't change it, let the guys who act pathetic around women make such un-original comments as "God! She's so HOT!" etc etc. It only makes the rest of us who don't put women on a pedestal look 100 times better.

The problem is, while it makes you more attractive to not be like those guys, this groveling attitude also breeds bad habits in women. The man who behaves normally, and not like some beggar, can have women in his life. The more difficult part is finding one that is well-behaved or training a woman to be better behaved once you have her. The easy part is the having. The harder part is the behavioral issues once you have them.
 

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Guys want to show off what they have to their friends. Some chicks like the attention and think it's sweet at first. They will soon get tired of it al lwhen they start banging the "bad boy" types they used to.
 
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I had a friend who suddenly started commenting on every little thread his wife put up. She would put up how dreamy Davey Havok from AFI looked in a new music video and he would comment about how how he agreed on how handsome the guy was or some such nonsense. I was about to pull a Burroughs and playfully warn him of his sudden case of Faggot-ness, but then it hit me: Why is he making these kiss a$$ comments to his wife on FB unless he wasn't able to talk to her directly?

I immediately clicked his page. Relationship status: Single clicked her page, she had moved to another state and was engaged with a new man! She even lost weight (she was lumpy before but got huge after marriage, now she looks like a different woman). After a few months I had to delete her just from principle.

He's finally moved on and is dating again (yes with a woman), but now I have another male friend who is going through a horrible engagement fallout that is being played out on BookFace. I'm thinking of making a page strictly for networking only because seeing friends relationships implode online, and them recording their depression faze with every new posts is draining.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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