"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guys that are struggling : revelations VOL.1

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Guys, I decided everytime I break a barrier, which will be whenever I see things need majorly helped, that many new comers see as a unpassable peak I would put the synopsis up and put the valuable DJ lesson at the bottom.

Revelations VOL.1

So, I decided to go to my school's last home track meet, and it just so happens that T*, a chick (HB 8) I hadn't seen in awhile, was waiting for her mom to pick her up, she did all the talking. When her mom came, we said bye and I went inside for water ('Tis hot out).

Inside, I chatted up wit one of my bros I hadn't seen in a half a year. Then went to the meet.

I found two guys A* and A* and a HB 8.5 A* (Triple A lol) and hung out. Long story short, she brought up her ex, one of my friends, and I accidentally said, "that's just what you know" cuz she said, "Girls always find out crap that other people say about them." So, she did what any desparate girl would do, and begged, pouted, and tried "Cuting" it out. I resisted, so she stole my hat and wouldn't give it back (several times). I used this moment to "take my hat back" by reaching behind her, ect. just to mess around.

BLAH time... watching events.

The chick, A*, was at her last event, javalin throwing and I was watching. But, she was still asking me to tell her. So I told her maybe...

Needless to say, she made 3-4 crappy throws and kept asking me to tell her. Her throwing lost it for the girls, I think, So, I broke the Ex bf rules of never talking about them and rewarded her by telling her everything I could remember, hardly anything a week or so after the fact that and the fact that I lied and didn't tell her everything and gave half truths, maybe a mistake?

Then I hung with M* and she took my hat to wear and stuff. I said bye to everyone and headed home.

(Details are few, but no one wants an essay, right?)

Lessons:
1. People you hardly ever see don't care if you talk with them and their friends.

2. I debated whether or not to "take the hat" more than once. Chances are if she takes something or play hits or something, kino is in the clear.

3. It's ok to break rules as long as you control the damage. By that I mean use rule breaking as a means to uplift the chick sparingly. (In my case, she couldn't stop worrying about how I saw her and Fü©kÐ up all her shot put and javalin throws.)

4. Getting involved in anything helps you become less scared.

5. Don't ever be afraid to do something, when I was getting my hat back the guy A* said, you two should just get a room. That's how intense it was and the worst possible think I thought was she'd get to hating me, and the guys wouldn't like me and make fun of me. ALL THAT HAPPENED WAS A LOUSY JOKE. NO ONE CARES HOW YOU INTERACT AS LONG AS YOU KEEP IT RELATEVELY CLEAN!!!

If you have a Revelations VOL you want covered just PM me and I'll work on it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks for the opportunity to let me post one of my revelations in your threads so you can post it.
 

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I don't mean to be a ****, but girls who throw shotput are beasts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nah. she's not good at all. probably JV2 if there was a JV2 team
 
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