"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys showing IOI-s..

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Over the last few months I've noticed that most of the guys i talk to in school show typical girly type indicators of interest. Even the male teachers do this :crazy:

Typically I see them touching up their hair , tidying up their shirts and jeans, messing around with rings or such while around me, having their legs crossed up with one of their feet pointing at me, often rocking back and forth, having their upper body directed towards me while they're busy doing something else.

I'm pretty sure that they arent gay so what would be the reason for this body language? Is it just my personality getting that kind of reactions or what? Are both sexes coded to show their approval to someone in the same ways?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Check out "The Definitive Book of Body Language". These aren't IOI's. Men and women show their interest differently. Coming from a male these can actually mean NEGATIVE things. For instance, when two men talk, if one man busies himself by picking lint off himself, it often means he disagrees with you but won't say anything. Simply facing you means that he's engaged by whatever you're saying.
 
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You have your gaydar on full hyper alert.
 
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