"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guys showing affection to their girlfriends when they see you

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Belmar2009

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I have noticed this happens when I walk near a guy and his woman.

I am no GQ model....but probably about a 7.5...maybe an 8.


This happen to anybody else? I guess it is a compliment because the guy feels threatened by me or these guys are just toolbags that have to let every guy know "hey this is my property, back off."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get this all the time.

It runs the gamut from sudden affection to wrinkled brows and posturing.

Women aren't all that stupid, they know when their guys is jealous and threatened.
 
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Its probably because they notice their GF checking you out or notice her signs of attraction. I had this happen about an hour ago. I've been having a really shytty day, and went to have a couple drinks. This guy I dont know, but knows me because of a bullet hole in my van (long story) was telling his GF (I imagine) about it. She starts talking to me about it, and the convo goes on, so this guy starts coming in between us, and loudly talking about of they got married, if she'd tattoo his name on her pvssy. I told him if he married her, he should tattoo 'sucker' on his forehead.They left shortly after. I dont know if she was flirting with me or not, but he was bothered by it.
 
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I think it depends. If a guy comes on to my woman than it is simple to show some affection to show that she is taken so the guy get the hint. Otherwise it could be a sign of feeling threatened.

I don't know if it has happened to me since I have trouble seing in front of me because of my enormous penis.
 
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Women are emotional. If you're better looking than the guy she's with, of course she'll check you out.

If you're on the other side of the coin, just be calm, secure, and confident. Getting possessive could make the girl think she's your oneitis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yup, I've had it happen to a girl at my dancing classes. She broke up a few months ago with her boyfriend, and I started flirting with her. After christmas break she and her ex got back together(After she had some fling with another dude), but I continued flirting with her. Every single time I am around, he stands all close to her, hangs his arm around her shoulder while she basically ignores all of it and flirts back.

I think a lot of guys in general are quite jealous regarding their girlfriend. They see it as theirs and when other guys are checking her out, they're all afraid she might just dump him and run off with the other guy.
 
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