"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys, She said let me think about it?

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I asked this chick at work to give me her phone number and she said let me think about it and you know we both work together. I know she's attracted to me but, I didn't make a move until now. I felt the timing was not right. I saw her in a pair nice fitting pants and man I wanted her. I think she still likes me ,but right now she wants to make wait and chase her. Give me some advice,

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by EXXON
I asked this chick at work to give me her phone number and she said let me think about it and you know we both work together. I know she's attracted to me but, I didn't make a move until now. I felt the timing was not right. I saw her in a pair nice fitting pants and man I wanted her. I think she still likes me ,but right now she wants to make wait and chase her. Give me some advice,

thanks
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if she said let me think about it, she's not attracted to you.

Live to fight another day
 
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I forgot to mention earlier she passed me a note asking me out for lunch. I didn't respond with yes or no, I said ok. The only reason I was relucant to date her was we work together(the old taboo) and she has a very dominant personality. I knew we would clash in the beginning. So I let things simmer. She has always passed subtle flirts and hints my way and we talk at the office all the time. By the way she also lives in the same subdivison. I think she's trying to make me wait and pay for not hitting on her from the beginning. Advice please. I still think she interested.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my own advice would be to forget about her and her silly games and move on.

But personally i wouldnt listen to my own advice as this is the type of girl i would be attracted to. someone that gives you hints that they like you but play it hard and make you work.

Unfortunatly i cant really offer much on what to do next. just dont give up on it.
 
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To be honest mate i think this chick isn't into you and you're reading too far into it.
 
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your # close may have come off awkward/nervous. it does happen...

i'd suggest going for it again sometime soon, push the subjet a little about getting together for coffee/lunch
 
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Dominate personality, she says 'i'll think about it' when you ask for her number, but passes you a note to have lunch with her.

If this were a playground and you were both 6 years old, she would be throwing paper at you (playfully) to get your attention.

If you don't want to mess with her because of work, then drop the whole thing. But if you want to see what happens, start being that guy all women love to have around.
 
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Originally posted by EXXON
I asked this chick at work to give me her phone number and she said let me think about it and you know we both work together. I know she's attracted to me but, I didn't make a move until now. I felt the timing was not right. I saw her in a pair nice fitting pants and man I wanted her. I think she still likes me ,but right now she wants to make wait and chase her. Give me some advice,

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"Let me think about it" = "LJBF"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: Re: Guys, She said let me think about it?

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if she said let me think about it, she's not attracted to you.

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I kinda agree but not totally. I mean if you are not dressed your best that day or well groomed , she might be having second thoughts.

but if you are at your physical best groomed , well-dressed, and prepared and she still says that then I agree with the above,

you can't shoot yourself before you even try. ..you should give it your best shot possible at all times.
 
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yeah I mean, you are right, but you are trying to teach advanced physicis to a guy that hasn't gotten out of basic sience.

In other words, you want to make it as simple as possible for guys who are new to learning their past mistakes.

You need to understand, the basic primise, that hey, if a girl for one reason or another doesn't like you, you need to move on.

Yeah, half the time, it might be something you did wrong, but you did it wrong. Learn what you did and move on... which is actually the best way to get with her in the first place if she works with you, show her you want her, but don't need her, and prove it by not giving her any more thought as far as dating.


Think about it however.. when you like a girl, a girl asks for your phone number.. is there any question about what youa re going to say? Let me think about it my ass.. you will probaby double check to make sure you gave her the right number, and when she doesn't call in 1 day, you will wonder was the number still right or wrong or what possible reason could she have for not calling.

In other words, people will make it known if they like you.

If i have to convince you to date me, or even try, I need to move on, because even if she dates you, her motives aren't in the right place.

You date someone because you are attracted to them in one way or another, and youc an't convicne anyone to be attracted to anyone else, it just happens.

When she becomes attracted to you, for whatever reason, she will make it known
 
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