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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Guys please help this girl is TRICKY, really need advice
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Guys i know its a long story, pls replie I really need some answers 
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all info is essential to give good advice my man, just read it i think its quite a interesting story too and i have to learn a lot with girls like these she got a hold on me man u need to know every detail mate
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Too much drama.
Why did she date this ******* in the first place? If you're going to have her, he needs to know he has no chance anymore, so it would have to be official between you two. Otherwise he'll bring friends and beat you with baseball bats.
He's crazy, she must have some crazy in her to have dated him. Find a new girl to avoid more drama. She likes you more than him, but enough to date you? I don't think so. Rejecting the kiss is a really bad sign.
Why did she date this ******* in the first place? If you're going to have her, he needs to know he has no chance anymore, so it would have to be official between you two. Otherwise he'll bring friends and beat you with baseball bats.
He's crazy, she must have some crazy in her to have dated him. Find a new girl to avoid more drama. She likes you more than him, but enough to date you? I don't think so. Rejecting the kiss is a really bad sign.
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thank you for reading my story, appreciate my man.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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uhu another fight to escalate and stuff. thx for reading tho appreciate
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If it was Channing Tatum here she wouldn't mind kissing him on the mouth!
Dude, what Judge nismo got out of reading that big ass wall of text was that she's not over her ex and is still wet for him. She dries up for you.
Also, women who are interested in you won't confuse you. This was doomed before it started. All this drama.
My ruling is drop her ass and spin more plates. She's giving you mixed emotions and rejecting your kisses. But she doesn't mind your attention! All bad signs.
Case closed.
Dude, what Judge nismo got out of reading that big ass wall of text was that she's not over her ex and is still wet for him. She dries up for you.
Also, women who are interested in you won't confuse you. This was doomed before it started. All this drama.
My ruling is drop her ass and spin more plates. She's giving you mixed emotions and rejecting your kisses. But she doesn't mind your attention! All bad signs.
Case closed.
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Hey bradd and nismo, ye im sure u guys are right. gonna see her in 2 weeks or so, ill just act normal and cool like nothin happened, but i feel like revenge or so coz she ****ing used me, but sending something is weak even tho i want to put her on her place.bradd80 said:
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Many red flags here, OP.
1. She was nice to you when she felt she could benefit from your help with the assignment. A few friendly flirty texts, eye contact, kisses on the cheek - all designed to keep you orbiting and boosting her ego. When you tried to escalate, she backed off and made bullsht excuses.
Don't be surprised if she goes ghost on your ass as soon as the assignment is done.
2. She hangs out with rich dudes at clubs. What for? Free drinks? Is she a paid escort? Does she just like attention?
Like many young modern women, she knows how to use her looks and men's desperation to her advantage.
You're being sucked into her attention wh0re vortex. There's no doubt she's either still banging her bad boy ex or at least trying to use you to make him jealous.
Fuk that. You need to get busy with other things and other women. If she's truly interested, her hamster will go into overdrive and she'll wonder what the hell you're up to and why you've suddenly gone cold.
DJs don't concern themselves with drama. Let her sort her shyt out with the ex while you go out and game women far more worthy of your time and effort.
1. She was nice to you when she felt she could benefit from your help with the assignment. A few friendly flirty texts, eye contact, kisses on the cheek - all designed to keep you orbiting and boosting her ego. When you tried to escalate, she backed off and made bullsht excuses.
Don't be surprised if she goes ghost on your ass as soon as the assignment is done.
2. She hangs out with rich dudes at clubs. What for? Free drinks? Is she a paid escort? Does she just like attention?
Like many young modern women, she knows how to use her looks and men's desperation to her advantage.
You're being sucked into her attention wh0re vortex. There's no doubt she's either still banging her bad boy ex or at least trying to use you to make him jealous.
Fuk that. You need to get busy with other things and other women. If she's truly interested, her hamster will go into overdrive and she'll wonder what the hell you're up to and why you've suddenly gone cold.
DJs don't concern themselves with drama. Let her sort her shyt out with the ex while you go out and game women far more worthy of your time and effort.