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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Guys please help this girl is TRICKY, really need advice
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Guys i know its a long story, pls replie I really need some answers 
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all info is essential to give good advice my man, just read it i think its quite a interesting story too and i have to learn a lot with girls like these she got a hold on me man u need to know every detail mate
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Too much drama.
Why did she date this ******* in the first place? If you're going to have her, he needs to know he has no chance anymore, so it would have to be official between you two. Otherwise he'll bring friends and beat you with baseball bats.
He's crazy, she must have some crazy in her to have dated him. Find a new girl to avoid more drama. She likes you more than him, but enough to date you? I don't think so. Rejecting the kiss is a really bad sign.
Why did she date this ******* in the first place? If you're going to have her, he needs to know he has no chance anymore, so it would have to be official between you two. Otherwise he'll bring friends and beat you with baseball bats.
He's crazy, she must have some crazy in her to have dated him. Find a new girl to avoid more drama. She likes you more than him, but enough to date you? I don't think so. Rejecting the kiss is a really bad sign.
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thank you for reading my story, appreciate my man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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uhu another fight to escalate and stuff. thx for reading tho appreciate
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If it was Channing Tatum here she wouldn't mind kissing him on the mouth!
Dude, what Judge nismo got out of reading that big ass wall of text was that she's not over her ex and is still wet for him. She dries up for you.
Also, women who are interested in you won't confuse you. This was doomed before it started. All this drama.
My ruling is drop her ass and spin more plates. She's giving you mixed emotions and rejecting your kisses. But she doesn't mind your attention! All bad signs.
Case closed.
Dude, what Judge nismo got out of reading that big ass wall of text was that she's not over her ex and is still wet for him. She dries up for you.
Also, women who are interested in you won't confuse you. This was doomed before it started. All this drama.
My ruling is drop her ass and spin more plates. She's giving you mixed emotions and rejecting your kisses. But she doesn't mind your attention! All bad signs.
Case closed.
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Hey bradd and nismo, ye im sure u guys are right. gonna see her in 2 weeks or so, ill just act normal and cool like nothin happened, but i feel like revenge or so coz she ****ing used me, but sending something is weak even tho i want to put her on her place.bradd80 said:
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Many red flags here, OP.
1. She was nice to you when she felt she could benefit from your help with the assignment. A few friendly flirty texts, eye contact, kisses on the cheek - all designed to keep you orbiting and boosting her ego. When you tried to escalate, she backed off and made bullsht excuses.
Don't be surprised if she goes ghost on your ass as soon as the assignment is done.
2. She hangs out with rich dudes at clubs. What for? Free drinks? Is she a paid escort? Does she just like attention?
Like many young modern women, she knows how to use her looks and men's desperation to her advantage.
You're being sucked into her attention wh0re vortex. There's no doubt she's either still banging her bad boy ex or at least trying to use you to make him jealous.
Fuk that. You need to get busy with other things and other women. If she's truly interested, her hamster will go into overdrive and she'll wonder what the hell you're up to and why you've suddenly gone cold.
DJs don't concern themselves with drama. Let her sort her shyt out with the ex while you go out and game women far more worthy of your time and effort.
1. She was nice to you when she felt she could benefit from your help with the assignment. A few friendly flirty texts, eye contact, kisses on the cheek - all designed to keep you orbiting and boosting her ego. When you tried to escalate, she backed off and made bullsht excuses.
Don't be surprised if she goes ghost on your ass as soon as the assignment is done.
2. She hangs out with rich dudes at clubs. What for? Free drinks? Is she a paid escort? Does she just like attention?
Like many young modern women, she knows how to use her looks and men's desperation to her advantage.
You're being sucked into her attention wh0re vortex. There's no doubt she's either still banging her bad boy ex or at least trying to use you to make him jealous.
Fuk that. You need to get busy with other things and other women. If she's truly interested, her hamster will go into overdrive and she'll wonder what the hell you're up to and why you've suddenly gone cold.
DJs don't concern themselves with drama. Let her sort her shyt out with the ex while you go out and game women far more worthy of your time and effort.