Guys need your help i think im being too rude on the phone..

[gimmeyofonenumba]

This chick is from college. I took her out last night, and she's telling me how she is a big partier and social drug-user, and she hangs around her chick friends alot, but i get the idea that she was mroe of an attention wh0re cause she mentions her guy friends alot. She's telling me how she falls for nice guys, but i kept knocking on her and she even said.."you like making fun of me huh.." in a playfull way. We ended the night didnt do anything physically, but she was giving alot of kino, and i gave alot back as well. The conversation was good i thought sh1t was going great. She said she wanted to hang out again.

I called her just now, and i invited her to hang out. Its wierd when i talk on the phone and make c&f she is baffled and doesnt understand, and i use sarcasm, and she always thinks im serious. She said she might go home this weekend for her friends bbq in response to me asking to hang with her, and i replied "ohh, just tell your friend to grab her bbq and hop on the bus and we'll chill at my place."

and she replies: "no i cant, she has alot of people meeting her there". The phone conversation is always bad, but the in person convo is good. I think i screwered this sh1t up cause when the conversation was dying down, she is like saying ok well i'll call you tommorow and let you know, and i always try to end the convo first so i cut her off saying "ya or i'll call you or whatever,bye"*click* it came out in a rude way cause i didnt even hear her say bye.

I dunno dudes. I think this girl might be LSE, when i thought she was aw. I think the next time i call her i need to be really endearing. Cause im getting the feeling from this last phone convo that she thinks im an a$$ hole. What do i do?

 

[KontrollerX]

"Its wierd when i talk on the phone and make c&f she is baffled and doesnt understand, and i use sarcasm, and she always thinks im serious."

Could be an AW.

Because of their nature as grown children trapped inside an adult woman's body they can only fake maturity but the mask slips when you get too clever and simple sarcasm and jokes go way over their heads.

Anyway don't worry about the phone call, if she's a true AW just talk to her again like normal the next time you think you should.

I assure you if she's a true AW she will likely of forgotten all about any perceived insult you've done her as they thrive on being treated just a little badly but not too badly and she'll love you for it and be all over you the next phone call.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I dunno. Afterwards i felt a little guilty like i was too harsh.

 

[KontrollerX]

Eh if she's an AW the next time you talk to her she'll act like a little girl and say "Are you mad at me?"

Then just say "Nah sorry baby if it seemed that way, I was a bit tired last night".

That should be a sufficient excuse.

 

[Phyzzle]

Yeah, I get that experience, too.

Now that you've already been out with her, I would just be "all business" on the phone. Just set up a date.