Hi guys, just need a quick bit of advice. I've been seeing girl X for about a week, only up to intimacy atm, no score.
She hangs around with a lot of guys, and so far I'm using them to great advantage to differentiate myself as they are a bunch of AFC's. However as I've inevitably pissed them off, since whilst being her friends they all would like to hit it, and so there is a bit of a smear campaign going on.
She definatly knows how to handle guys, yet she is not more than a HB8, she's so cute and sexy but she aint a double take ('cept that ass). So we're not talking SHB style playing, but she easily manages to keep her cabal of drooling minions around her.
Ok so things going smoothly, I've demonstrated my willingness to walk away several times but she obviously wants to test it as I've just been BLATENTLY stood up.
Ok so I see three avenues here:
1) Ignore it, and if she brings it up forgive her no probs.
2) Ignore it, but if she brings it up tell her I don't take **** like that.
3) Acknowledge it, and tell her I don't take **** like that.
I can't decide whether I should play this as if it didn't bother me in the slightest (i.e. I always have a great night anyways, if you didn't want to enjoy my company - your loss); or if I should make her pay for the stand up.
I personally feel, as I've been playing a lot of push/pull with her she is testing to see how much I actually like her, and I'm thus inclined to lean towards option 2, but thats just a guess. It could just as well have been drink + propaganda from her friends - in which case I would quite happily tell her that she can go back to her chumps for company if she tries that again.
I'd appreciate your views players.
jIm
She hangs around with a lot of guys, and so far I'm using them to great advantage to differentiate myself as they are a bunch of AFC's. However as I've inevitably pissed them off, since whilst being her friends they all would like to hit it, and so there is a bit of a smear campaign going on.
She definatly knows how to handle guys, yet she is not more than a HB8, she's so cute and sexy but she aint a double take ('cept that ass). So we're not talking SHB style playing, but she easily manages to keep her cabal of drooling minions around her.
Ok so things going smoothly, I've demonstrated my willingness to walk away several times but she obviously wants to test it as I've just been BLATENTLY stood up.
Ok so I see three avenues here:
1) Ignore it, and if she brings it up forgive her no probs.
2) Ignore it, but if she brings it up tell her I don't take **** like that.
3) Acknowledge it, and tell her I don't take **** like that.
I can't decide whether I should play this as if it didn't bother me in the slightest (i.e. I always have a great night anyways, if you didn't want to enjoy my company - your loss); or if I should make her pay for the stand up.
I personally feel, as I've been playing a lot of push/pull with her she is testing to see how much I actually like her, and I'm thus inclined to lean towards option 2, but thats just a guess. It could just as well have been drink + propaganda from her friends - in which case I would quite happily tell her that she can go back to her chumps for company if she tries that again.
I'd appreciate your views players.
jIm