"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i know this may sound funny hope i aint giving gay signals becos im as straight as they come personality wise and looks i even got beards on..stuble anyway, but does anyone have this situation sometimes when a guy stares at you and smiles at you??.
sometimes when im on the street or on a train. i notice once in a while a guy would smile at me or when walking down the street would nodd his head at me. i would see them glancing when i turn at them too look they nodd their heads at me. not every guy but sometimes i get this ****. wtf does this mean? do they wana make friends or wat?.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sometimes when I'm walking down the street and I cross paths with another guy, I'll give a nod or a what's up or something, but I don't flash a fvcking smile. If you're getting that, it means either you look like a joke or these dudes eat corn the long way and assume you do too.
 

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I'll smile and nod at guys. WTF is wrong with that? Sorry for acknowledging your existance.

Next to nobody is gay. It's talked about way too much. Not every action in the world is gay.

If you walk by and I turn around to glance at you i'm not checking you out. Something caught my eye and i felt like looking. If i see a bird fly by out of the corner of my eye and i look at it more closely it doesn't i want to fvck birds. If i look at a car driving by it doesn't mean i want my peter in its tailpipe.

It only seems like gay is everywhere because people won't stop talking about it. And they won't stop making lame tv shows where every 3rd person is gay.
 

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mrRuckus said:
I'll smile and nod at guys. WTF is wrong with that? Sorry for acknowledging your existance.

Next to nobody is gay. It's talked about way too much. Not every action in the world is gay.

If you walk by and I turn around to glance at you i'm not checking you out. Something caught my eye and i felt like looking. If i see a bird fly by out of the corner of my eye and i look at it more closely it doesn't i want to fvck birds. If i look at a car driving by it doesn't mean i want my peter in its tailpipe.

It only seems like gay is everywhere because people won't stop talking about it. And they won't stop making lame tv shows where every 3rd person is gay.
Please. You make sound like I'm saying that just looking in the general direction of another guy is gay. Aknowledging someone, saying what's up..nothing wrong with all that. Smiles aren't even bad if there's fvcking reason for it, like they said or did something funny, we both catch each other checking out a nice rack on some chick. Yeah, alright. Cool. But a random smile? No reason? Sorry, man, but if I get that I'm thinking you like rainbows.
 

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Why do you seem to be making a thing over it. I always just assume its because i look hot and guys are jelaous.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL, YAY HOMOPHOBIA!

So what if a guy looks at you, or even hits on you? The only reason you should be scared is if you THINK you're gay and might say yes when the guy asks you out... and even then, if you ARE gay, then you're finally figuring it out so that's a good thing.

Geez.

Just so everyone knows... a gay guy knows if you're gay (or tempted...!) almost right away. Those guys are DJ's beyond anything we can imagine. You wanna learn how to pick someone up? Go to a gay bar and watch the action... I sh*t you not, it's absolutely amazing and hilarious. They have NO QUALMS and jump right to it.
 

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I really don't know - I'm usually checking out the women. :)
 

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Shezz said:
Who cares? Nod back at them, befriend them! GAME EVERYONE!

If you can't make a straight guy friend in a club, you can't pick up a HB10, guaranteed.

Sarge On...

Agreed. Dont get so defensive. You can smile and make friends with them.

assume its positive until something happens to prove otherwise.
 

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guy's check me out at the gym all the time. it's has nothing to do with them being gay though. it probably has to do with me looking foolish on the stairmaster cause i practically kill myself on those things. i get the vibe that they are thinking cardio is for girls.
 
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