“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys in relationships that don't live with each other, how many times a week do you hang out with your LTR

Murk

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Recently was Friday to Monday morning at my house, rest of the week I had to myself until Friday again.

Sometimes it was random throughout the week.

In LTR always at least 2-3 days a week I would see them.

FWB/casual maximum 1-2 days a week. Rarely ever 2 days.
 

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It would depend upon how long you two have been dating. For relationships 6-12 months+ when the couple isn't living together, I think seeing each other at least 3 days a week is typical.
 

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Whenever I want to get it wet. But I read somewhere that if you are not married, once a week should be fine.
 

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For me it was Friday to Sunday at my house, then one day a week, like a Tuesday or Wednesday I would go to her house.

So it was like seeing eachother 3x per week.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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For me it's like this:

Dating: 1-2 times/wk

Serious Relationship: 3 times/wk.
 

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Hi Cornbread,
Great to see your evolution on this site...To keep yourself interesting and your principal Relationship fresh,vital,alive, always leave a minimum two or three days for Plates,Family,friends,whatever.... It is also beneficial to go out eating,movies,dancing with your primary love interest at least a couple of times weekly....once established an LTR is like a living sensient beast with a life of it's own it needs nurturing!
 
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