She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Then, just alittle further down the list you have me . . . .Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I think getting laid hierarchy in a band is.
1. Singer
2. Drummer
3. Guitarist
4. Bass guitarist
5. Keyboardist
I'm in a band and it isn't that way.Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I think getting laid hierarchy in a band is.
1. Singer
2. Drummer
3. Guitarist
4. Bass guitarist
5. Keyboardist
No, really, it doesn't matter. I've been in several small bands. It might help you in terms of exposure to chicks (if you play their kind of music) but it won't help if you got no game.