"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guys in bands?

Swede54

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Im curious, i play guitar and sing heavy metal type ****. (its good) not just blah. But do girls actaully like guitar players and singers and crap, they say they do, but does that **** actaully impress them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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girls like confidence. you agree?
performing infront of people is confident. you agree?
girls like a guy who commands attention. you agree?
a guy in a band commands all kinds of attention, infact, people pay to give the band there attention. you agree?
unless ur a really ugly mother ****er, i think you'd score a few extra girls if u were playing some gigs.
 

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Girls like guys that get alot of attention.


WHO THE FVCK CARES ABOUT THE GUITAR!!!! ITS ABOUT YOU!!!!


Do you get a lot of attention?

You're a good guitar player...

Thats cool.


I've known some pretty lonely, damn good guitar players.

Girls like guitar players / band members, because the ones that stick out are the ones that opitomise the bad boy essence. Sure they do!

Who would question or doubt that?

Chicks dig stars. I mean Jeez, what other advantage do you frickin need?

Demand respect;

Demand affection;

You are an aspiring rock star are you not? ;)




Andromax
 

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There was a Fingers post called "Shattering the Limits" or something like that regarding this very topic. Good read. Think it's still in Tips somewhere.
 

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I think getting laid hierarchy in a band is.

1. Singer
2. Drummer
3. Guitarist
4. Bass guitarist
5. Keyboardist

No, really, it doesn't matter. I've been in several small bands. It might help you in terms of exposure to chicks (if you play their kind of music) but it won't help if you got no game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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actually, the frontman gets more pùssy than everyone else in the band, because of the motifs explained by the other guys. the drummer usually has got lots of tattoos and piercings and looks like a bad boy (think about travis by blink 182), and so is the guitarist, without piercings but with long hair and a shady look on his face. the bass guitarist is neither cold or hot, just average, so he gets far less pùssy. then there is the keyboardist who usually is a jerk and/or looks like one, so he's snobbed by all the ladies... welcome to rock mainstream:-D


p.s.: become a frontman... think about mick jagger, mc cartney, anthony kiedis and most of all jim morrison;-)
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I think getting laid hierarchy in a band is.

1. Singer
2. Drummer
3. Guitarist
4. Bass guitarist
5. Keyboardist
Then, just alittle further down the list you have me . . . .


....

....

745. Male Clarinetist

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I think getting laid hierarchy in a band is.

1. Singer
2. Drummer
3. Guitarist
4. Bass guitarist
5. Keyboardist

No, really, it doesn't matter. I've been in several small bands. It might help you in terms of exposure to chicks (if you play their kind of music) but it won't help if you got no game.
I'm in a band and it isn't that way.

more like this.

in order of confidence required.

1. Singer (get laid the most)
2. Guitarist (solos, intros, girls hear this)
3. Bass guitarist (girls can't notice if you screw up or play well, if you are hot they will notice you however)
5. Drummer (hides in the back - gets groupies.)
6. Keyboardist (doesn't get laid)

I honestly don't know where the girls come from when you are in a band. It think it is because your circle of friends at least triples and you are always meeting new people. As a result you meet more girls who are allready impressed with you for just being in a band.

So if you want girls just take a lesson from that.

1. Increase your circle of frends
2. Become more social
3. Display your talents in such a way that it sets you appart from other guys.
 
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