"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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guys, I'm so bummed out, I need some uplifting

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Yep, I guess it's the oneitis.

I was head over heels for this girl. Totally my type, physically, hot damn and personality wise, from what I learned of her, she was pretty damn great. Very cool, very nice. She's a nurse.

yaddi yadda, in random order, there was facebook communication in there, txt messaging, phone call, yaddi yadda, her busy, me busy, bla bla bla, I made sure to say "I want to take you out". Can't be clearer right?

Here's the kicker, she moves out of the city at the end of the month and after a bunch of times of not working out, the "boyfriend" word was dropped.

Now, she chilled at my place for over 2h couple of weeks ago, I'm 99% sure she doesn't have a bf but the message is pretty clear.

boooooo

She was my perfect 10 and it didn't work out, I'm so bummed out.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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get something that makes you happy thats INNER

***** is *****...

dont get emotionally invested in people that arent gonna reverse the sentiment.
 
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She couldn't have been your perfect 10 if she wasn't interested. Don't get discouraged, she's just one girl. It's easy to get so focused on one person when they seem perfect, but once you start looking you'll see how many other great girls are out there!
 
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thanks guys...

I went out tonight, but ****... I didn't even have a good time. I'm just so pissed off that I can get a girl so get to me you know?? It's not right!!! Nobody should be able to affect me so negatively.

that's just wrong. It's just not right.
 
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i have no idea what your posting is about. be a little bit clearer next time buddy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bumped


cuz I need it :(

She moved out of the city, yet she's still in my head. I hate that
 
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Look at the bright side, you didn't get in a relationship with her, imagine if she broke up with you. There are only 2 things you can do which you can do at the same time. 1) try for a long distance relationship or convince her not to move 2) go find more chicks.

I'm in the same boat right now, this chick I was really feeling kind of blew me off to the point of no return. But I'm confident I'll be able to jump back on some other broads. Good luck.
 
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Where's she moving? Maybe you should cut off balls off and mail them to her as a house warming gift or something you know. It's common courtesy.

GROW A FVCKIN PAIR YOU LOSER. SHE'S A GODDAMN GIRL. A PERFECT 10? ARE YOU FVCKING INSANE. SHE PROBABLY HAS A HUGE **** IN HER PANTS. OR A METAPHORICAL ****, AKA, A HUGE UGLY PHALLIC MONSTER DEEP INSIDE HER YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT. HOW CAN YOU ASSUME SHE'S SO PERFECT WITHOUT KNOWING HER SO WELL? FVCK MAN GET YOUR DAMN NUTS OR CUT THEM OFF AND SEND THEM TO HER. SHE'LL AT LEAST HAVE ANOTHER ORNAMENT IN TIME FOR THE HOLIDAY SEASON. B1TCH
 
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Imagine instead of the problems you have now if you were over in Iraq dodging IEDS, eating sand and showering once every 3 weeks. It does kind of put things in perspective, not that your problems arent serious...but they could be much worse. keep your head up, with age and experience you will get much better at avoiding oneitis.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dee-zy

Havent seen many posts by you in awhile

What you need to do is hang out with friends or nearby Djs
and chase other women.

Distract yourself from thinking of her,
maybe change routine try new things but move on.

Some things are beyond control.
 
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Chaos-Knight said:
Dee-zy

Havent seen many posts by you in awhile

What you need to do is hang out with friends or nearby Djs
and chase other women.

Distract yourself from thinking of her,
maybe change routine try new things but move on.

Some things are beyond control.
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Thanks, I went out on Wednesday with a couple of friends, but ended up not approaching any girl although a sexy one in particular kept checking me out:cuss:

I think I will join the mtl lair officially... could be good for me.
 
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i say out of sight out of mind. If you spend enought time with any girl they always seem to be perfect. Even stuff you didnt like you all of a sudden find attractive. I say you dont even get to know her until youve been on a date, and even then be careful.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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once you learn to love your self, then all others things in life is just a bonus :) you control some things, some things you cannot, may be thats the way its ment to be, theres no girl that can be 10/10 i can guarantee you that right now!! theres like a slim 1-2 percent chance i am wrong but hey :) wanna bet ?
 
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AETude said:
once you learn to love your self, then all others things in life is just a bonus :) you control some things, some things you cannot, may be thats the way its ment to be, theres no girl that can be 10/10 i can guarantee you that right now!! theres like a slim 1-2 percent chance i am wrong but hey :) wanna bet ?
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I really like your attitude, thanks.
 
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you are welcome. i;ve just been screwed over by this chick, aint gonna stop me going to where i want to go... just another damn hooee.. lol
 
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