“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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guys, I'm so bummed out, I need some uplifting

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Yep, I guess it's the oneitis.

I was head over heels for this girl. Totally my type, physically, hot damn and personality wise, from what I learned of her, she was pretty damn great. Very cool, very nice. She's a nurse.

yaddi yadda, in random order, there was facebook communication in there, txt messaging, phone call, yaddi yadda, her busy, me busy, bla bla bla, I made sure to say "I want to take you out". Can't be clearer right?

Here's the kicker, she moves out of the city at the end of the month and after a bunch of times of not working out, the "boyfriend" word was dropped.

Now, she chilled at my place for over 2h couple of weeks ago, I'm 99% sure she doesn't have a bf but the message is pretty clear.

boooooo

She was my perfect 10 and it didn't work out, I'm so bummed out.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get something that makes you happy thats INNER

***** is *****...

dont get emotionally invested in people that arent gonna reverse the sentiment.
 
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She couldn't have been your perfect 10 if she wasn't interested. Don't get discouraged, she's just one girl. It's easy to get so focused on one person when they seem perfect, but once you start looking you'll see how many other great girls are out there!
 
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thanks guys...

I went out tonight, but ****... I didn't even have a good time. I'm just so pissed off that I can get a girl so get to me you know?? It's not right!!! Nobody should be able to affect me so negatively.

that's just wrong. It's just not right.
 
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i have no idea what your posting is about. be a little bit clearer next time buddy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bumped


cuz I need it :(

She moved out of the city, yet she's still in my head. I hate that
 
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Look at the bright side, you didn't get in a relationship with her, imagine if she broke up with you. There are only 2 things you can do which you can do at the same time. 1) try for a long distance relationship or convince her not to move 2) go find more chicks.

I'm in the same boat right now, this chick I was really feeling kind of blew me off to the point of no return. But I'm confident I'll be able to jump back on some other broads. Good luck.
 
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Where's she moving? Maybe you should cut off balls off and mail them to her as a house warming gift or something you know. It's common courtesy.

GROW A FVCKIN PAIR YOU LOSER. SHE'S A GODDAMN GIRL. A PERFECT 10? ARE YOU FVCKING INSANE. SHE PROBABLY HAS A HUGE **** IN HER PANTS. OR A METAPHORICAL ****, AKA, A HUGE UGLY PHALLIC MONSTER DEEP INSIDE HER YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT. HOW CAN YOU ASSUME SHE'S SO PERFECT WITHOUT KNOWING HER SO WELL? FVCK MAN GET YOUR DAMN NUTS OR CUT THEM OFF AND SEND THEM TO HER. SHE'LL AT LEAST HAVE ANOTHER ORNAMENT IN TIME FOR THE HOLIDAY SEASON. B1TCH
 
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Imagine instead of the problems you have now if you were over in Iraq dodging IEDS, eating sand and showering once every 3 weeks. It does kind of put things in perspective, not that your problems arent serious...but they could be much worse. keep your head up, with age and experience you will get much better at avoiding oneitis.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dee-zy

Havent seen many posts by you in awhile

What you need to do is hang out with friends or nearby Djs
and chase other women.

Distract yourself from thinking of her,
maybe change routine try new things but move on.

Some things are beyond control.
 
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Chaos-Knight said:
Dee-zy

Havent seen many posts by you in awhile

What you need to do is hang out with friends or nearby Djs
and chase other women.

Distract yourself from thinking of her,
maybe change routine try new things but move on.

Some things are beyond control.
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Thanks, I went out on Wednesday with a couple of friends, but ended up not approaching any girl although a sexy one in particular kept checking me out:cuss:

I think I will join the mtl lair officially... could be good for me.
 
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i say out of sight out of mind. If you spend enought time with any girl they always seem to be perfect. Even stuff you didnt like you all of a sudden find attractive. I say you dont even get to know her until youve been on a date, and even then be careful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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once you learn to love your self, then all others things in life is just a bonus :) you control some things, some things you cannot, may be thats the way its ment to be, theres no girl that can be 10/10 i can guarantee you that right now!! theres like a slim 1-2 percent chance i am wrong but hey :) wanna bet ?
 
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AETude said:
once you learn to love your self, then all others things in life is just a bonus :) you control some things, some things you cannot, may be thats the way its ment to be, theres no girl that can be 10/10 i can guarantee you that right now!! theres like a slim 1-2 percent chance i am wrong but hey :) wanna bet ?
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I really like your attitude, thanks.
 
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you are welcome. i;ve just been screwed over by this chick, aint gonna stop me going to where i want to go... just another damn hooee.. lol
 
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