Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Guys, I think I made a fatal mistake last night

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Basically, this gal I've been seeing for 7-8 weeks is really pissed off at me it seems, Even after I fvcked her raw last night and made her come multiple times (mainly from doggie). I understand what I did wrong, but at the time I was like "I don't give a fvck." It was hot as fvck (her airconditioner was broke), and we sweated like 2 thin hogs, just a slithery drenched mess.

So I'm driving to her place and she tells me about her "best" friend who she'd "trust with her life" and that she wanted us to do a 3-some. I'm like, umm kay, "send me a pic of her or give me a description" and she sends me a pic of her (maybe 10 yrs) "older" blonde friend. I'm like, naaaa I don't want her there (um, really, why would I wanna fvck an old one? I don't like old women). This, I believe was the genesis of our problems that we are having as of today.

As it turned out, her girlfriend stayed in her apartment and simply invited her boyfriend over because I did not want her at my (sorta - we aren't exclusive) girlfriend's apartment. No problem, right? So we catch up with our lives from a week ago, and she's telling me about ALL her problems (so negative). I calm her down and we start kissing and feeling each other up. I pull off my clothes cause it's so hot (sweating already) and then pull the remainder of hers off. We're legs locked around in a bind and kissing (not as passionate as we used to be but still hot and sexy, her rubbing her pvssy on my leg, the little nymph). I start to go down on her, but decide not to, and go back up her body to her mouth to resume more soul-connecting kisses. I just don't feel like tuna. Same with the last time, and the time before. I haven't eaten her in 4 weeks.

Eventually after a lot of body to body, caressing and kissing, I put on the rubber fvck her in missionary. While I'm doing this she fvckin falls asleep, snoring and everything! I'm like "[her name], [her name], wake up!" She says she's been up all day, and so with her legs pressed together, I fvck her like that for a while. Then we start spooning...beautiful little as5 to watch as I crank and maneuver from behind. She's enjoying it, it feels like husband and wife. Then we get her flipped another 90 degrees to full doggie position and HERE is where I bang her for a LONG, long, long, long time, and she comes, comes, comes, and comes, kicking her slit and as5 back at me several times. I get sooo connected to her here, and kiss the left side of her head/hair above her left ear and just in deep affection for her. I did all the work, she just relished in the pleasure, we a sweaty, dank soup of biological fluids - the bedsheets completely soaked. We had a fan, but that's it, no AC...sucked.

Over 2 hours of straight fvcking (a lot of work for me with her on the receiving end of my tireless fvcking), so she climbs aboard one last time on the edge of the corner of the bed and rides, grinds, I poke back in broken rhythm, we exchange tit-for-tat broken thrusts, to feel each other to the max. I get closer and closer and start thinking of us as two teenagers in highschool at her parents' house fvcking in her room. This pretend in my mind helps me explode up in her (and as always she keeps thrusting well after I've already orgasmed - no other girl does that, just sloshing around on my already expired load). Keeping her still on me I pick her up with her still on me and carry her to the shower and set her down, shut the curtain and begin washing her/me off (really no soap in there just shampoo).

So after we fvck, we decided to go over to her "best" girlfriend's apartment to "meet" her (I'd already seen her picture and was not interested), at like 1:30 AM. I walk in, meet her And her boyfriend (she didn't know he'd be there). Her boyfriend was a scuzzy-lookin dude (about 10 yrs older than me I'd imagine). I was brief, and not really talkative (I guess this translates to "rude" but fvck I was sooo tired from fvcking her so long I couldn't even think or speak all that well, I just wanted to sleep). Anyway we go back outside and she tries to kiss me, and I pull away, and she says, "Wtf is that all about??" I didn't say anything, just that I've gotta go, and I'll "see you." She said, "see you." I don't know if she pissed or what cause I basically rejected her best girlfriend for sex. The way I see it, my body is sacred, and I'll only fvck who I wanta fvck, and I don't wanta fvck an older woman, I don't care WHO she is, or how "nice," "awesome," [fill in adjective here] she is.

I messaged my favorite girl this morning saying, "I'm sure that [her best friend's name] is stimulating, but I haven't been but with only one other (actually, that's a lie, it's 2 others but I didn't want to sound too calloused) than you since June and do not want to see anybody else right now."

She didn't respond with a text.

I then sent another text later, with a picture of us from last week and a voice message saying, "Sorry about last night, I should have said, 'Does anybody have any uppers?' because, I was just beat, you know, I was sooo wore out I couldn't think, I couldn't speak, sorry.."

I think that it may be over for us, but that's ok, because I have another date setup from last week for this Friday, which will probably lead to a lay from a highly interested chick the same age as her (24). She's from the south originally where I'm from and we've been trying to get together for weeks, but this other gal I've been fvcking has always taken precedence.

I will miss this one though, and I'll still try to get with her this coming Saturday after being with this new one on Friday.

But as I've said, this one who's fvcked me like none other, is Always negative of other people in her life (except for her "best" girlfriend), and has Never been negative to me in person, but she could be saying stuff behind my back like she does other people she constantly crucifies with her tongue.

She also asked me last night while we were fvcking to take drugs with her next weekend or next time I see her, I said, "No" because it may adversely affect my job, and that I must not have any kind of psychosis at work now or in the future, that it's for "safety" reasons that I remain pure and in good health. She said that it'd never happen from just one time, and I still said no. This, may have pissed her off too, but really I don't give a fvck, but I will miss her as a fvcking partner as she is the best fvck I've ever had, and I've grown attached to her, and I Thought that she'd grown attached to me too but time will tell I guess. We'll see what happens next week. I don't like her not returning my messages though, not a good sign.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm glad you're getting some booty and all, but 90% of this story is just internet porn. What is the actual issue? I got tired of reading through your various sexual positions.
 

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yeah this just seemed like a brag thread. Whats all the sex have to do with your actual problem? What is your actual problem?

P.S. - lol @ her falling asleep during sex. The sex must not be all that fun if its possible for someone to do that. I dont get that.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
I'm glad you're getting some booty and all, but 90% of this story is just internet porn. What is the actual issue? I got tired of reading through your various sexual positions.
Exactly what i was thinking...
 

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Jaylan said:
yeah this just seemed like a brag thread. Whats all the sex have to do with your actual problem? What is your actual problem?
Oh. Nevermind. I just looked up his posting history. He's just a clown, looking for attention.

Can't believe he took the time to write this up. Hobbies, people.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jaylan said:
yeah this just seemed like a brag thread. Whats all the sex have to do with your actual problem? What is your actual problem?
It's did I fvck up by sending 2 unanswered msgs apologizing for my behavior last night? One of the msgs contained an apologetic voice recording and a photo of us she'd never seen before.

I will know by next week if the apologetic msgs and rejecting her girlfriend for sex fvcked up our relationship for good. I also told her that "I was being an ass, sorry."

I feel that I have apologized too much. I shouldn't have sent any msgs cause I bet that she showed/played them to/for her girlfriend, at which point I bet they both trounced my good name to pieces for being a no good slimy guy the way all us guys are, right?

Well, anyway, I'll know for sure next week.

It's amazing how women can turn on a dime, and can't forgive and let live.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
It's did I fvck up by sending 2 unanswered msgs apologizing for my behavior last night? One of the msgs contained an apologetic voice recording and a photo of us she'd never seen before.

Yeah I would of only sent one, but its not the end of the world. I dont see what you had to apologize for. You screw who you want to screw. I like that you keep ya standards up on that. If anything you should of only apologized for seeming rude to her friend and her bf when you met them. But only once.

I will know by next week if the apologetic msgs and rejecting her girlfriend for sex fvcked up our relationship for good. I also told her that "I was being an ass, sorry."

I feel that I have apologized too much. I shouldn't have sent any msgs cause I bet that she showed/played them to/for her girlfriend, at which point I bet they both trounced my good name to pieces for being a no good slimey guy the way all us guys are, right?

Over-thinking here bro, by turning down the 3 some and maintaining your standards you show you arent a no good slimey guy. You dont need any ole puzzy thrown at you. Be easy

Well, anyway, I'll know for sure next week.

It's amazing how women can turn on a dime, and can't forgive and let live.

True, but time will tell
My reply is in bold. However next time make your post a bit more summarized. All the sex details were unnecessary. And with all those details I wonder how the hell she could fall asleep during sex if you claim its always so hot and heavy.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Oh. Nevermind. I just looked up his posting history. He's just a clown, looking for attention.

Can't believe he took the time to write this up. Hobbies, people.
It took me 10 mins to write this up because it's true dumbas5, unlike any of your sh!t.
 

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Nice job!! I like your stats. I follow the same rules, I love the 22-26 crowd, I'll take older but the 20's are my specialty, and I just turned 40...

brag on my brother!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jaylan said:
My reply is in bold. However next time make your post a bit more summarized. All the sex details were unnecessary. And with all those details I wonder how the hell she could fall asleep during sex if you claim its always so hot and heavy.
I don't know, it was like the later it got, the more alive she became, but in the beginning her eyes were pretty blotted out and sheepish. I've Never had that happen though, where she just starts snoring. She's thin and fit too, not just some fat sow. Could've been the heat. She's been under a lot of stress lately and just moved which can be tiring. I kinda felt incompetent, but by the end, she was the perky one and I was the fvcked up one. She wanted me to meet her friend more than anything else last night it seemed, and I did not want to meet her, but did eventually anyway. I believe that it was her attempt too to improve her value to her friends, I don't know. I surely looked out of place or not like one of them so it was uncomfortable. She's always hung around older people. Her two children are fathered by guys older than I am.
 

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Her two children are fathered by guys older than I am.

She sounds like a real winner. Why are you stressing some single mom loser?
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
I'm glad you're getting some booty and all, but 90% of this story is just internet porn. What is the actual issue?
Classic.
 

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Sue Madre said:
She sounds like a real winner. Why are you stressing some single mom loser?
Fvck I don't know, dude. I shouldn't be. Thanks for reminding me that she's a loser that I shouldn't care about. She's just real good at sex (because of the drugs, I'd imagine), young, nice young un-breastfed bo0bs, pale-skinned, tiny as5 and pvssy (though not the tightest I've had but tight enough for my tolerance), good kisser, and (I thought) a friend. Sexually, she's perfect, except my ideal woman would not smoke and have a tighter pvss. When she's on her A-game, there's none other in the bed that's better that I've ran into. She's like a snake, or the devil herself.
 

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Fvck I don't know, dude. I shouldn't be. Thanks for reminding me that she's a loser that I shouldn't care about. She's just real good at sex (because of the drugs, I'd imagine), young, nice young un-breastfed bo0bs, pale-skinned, tiny as5 and pvssy (though not the tightest I've had but tight enough for my tolerance), good kisser, and (I thought) a friend. Sexually, she's perfect, except my ideal woman would not smoke and have a tighter pvss. When she's on her A-game, there's none other in the bed that's better that I've ran into. She's like a snake, or the devil herself.

hitting it raw? Do you want to be baby daddy #3?

If she never answers your calls again she will be doing you a favor. I won't even go on a date with a single mom.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sue Madre said:
hitting it raw? Do you want to be baby daddy #3?

If she never answers your calls again she will be doing you a favor. I won't even go on a date with a single mom.
I wouldn't go that far. I mean, single moms put out too, if not moreso.

Regarding the "never answers your calls/texts again she will be doing you a favor," well, she just texted me about an hour ago not to "worry about it" and "great picture" so I guess she's fvckin me again next weekend, but I'm still going through with plans with this other hot one Friday.

Sex is a lot of work and tiring. I mean, these women just have their cake and eat it too. We men really do have to work harder in bed while they just take the force we put out, the energy, the joules, the effort. We always have to be the slave donkeys, out in the real world And in the bedroom, always pushing harder, while they just lay on their weak-as5 backs, especially if she's fat. This one ain't fat, thus she can really ride me, is nimble, and has good posture and can stay upright while fvcking. Young women, the best.
 

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I wouldn't go that far. I mean, single moms put out too, if not moreso.

Regarding the "never answers your calls/texts again she will be doing you a favor," well, she just texted me about an hour ago not to "worry about it" and "great picture" so I guess she's fvckin me again next weekend, but I'm still going through with plans with this other hot one Friday.

Sex is a lot of work and tiring. I mean, these women just have their cake and eat it too. We men really do have to work harder in bed while they just take the force we put out, the energy, the joules, the effort. We always have to be the slave donkeys, out in the real world And in the bedroom, always pushing harder, while they just lay on their weak-as5 backs, especially if she's fat. This one ain't fat, thus she can really ride me, is nimble, and has good posture and can stay upright while fvcking. Young women, the best.
Maybe you should put your energy into meeting quality women. A single mother of 2? Why are you sticking your d!ck in that? Keep messing around with these losers and you will get stuck with one for life. Raise your standards. I used to date single moms and then realized I could get trapped with one and promised myself I would never do it again.
 
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