"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guys i strongly need your advice

sunnykhatri736

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I have been talking to a married woman
i met her 1 week back
first day she denied that she is married and she cant talk
but next day we started talking
and after 3 days we started dating
we kissed and makeout
she flirts with me and i flirts with me back
she says she is love with me
but now she said that we both shouldnt be talking bcz she has a family and this is wrong and she said that her husband is doubting on her and all that stuff and she said that we should not talk anymore because this is wrong.
so guys how should i react to this and what should i say to her after all the things she said ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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switch7

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sunnykhatri736 said:
I have been talking to a married woman
i met her 1 week back
first day she denied that she is married and she cant talk
but next day we started talking
and after 3 days we started dating
we kissed and makeout
she flirts with me and i flirts with me back
she says she is love with me
but now she said that we both shouldnt be talking bcz she has a family and this is wrong and she said that her husband is doubting on her and all that stuff and she said that we should not talk anymore because this is wrong.
so guys how should i react to this and what should i say to her after all the things she said ?
What tictac said and also 'she says she is love with me' << this is a BIG red flag. You met her a week ago. She wants to build up your emotions and drop you like a lead balloon. Stay away.
 

Slash Dolo

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Use her for sex and nothing more. Do not get attached unless she divorces the guy she's with and shows you the papers, and even then I'd tread incredibly lightly.
 
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