"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys, I Ran Out Of Conversation Stems

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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I'm not comfortable with approaching in general because I find there's a lack of conversation I can focus on

Anyway I was filming an advert today and my friend bought one of his cute friends round to do makeup, I chatted about Uni and gap year..but after that just ran out of ideas which was a shame

Thankfully the goal was not to attract her (would have been a bonus if i did), but to make myself more aware of my conversation skills with women, should I ever approach one myself.

But in the end I just ran out of things..what do you guys use to stimulate a conversation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alextheegreat

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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
I'm not comfortable with approaching in general because I find there's a lack of conversation I can focus on

Anyway I was filming an advert today and my friend bought one of his cute friends round to do makeup, I chatted about Uni and gap year..but after that just ran out of ideas which was a shame

Thankfully the goal was not to attract her (would have been a bonus if i did), but to make myself more aware of my conversation skills with women, should I ever approach one myself.

But in the end I just ran out of things..what do you guys use to stimulate a conversation?
Lol wana know what I do, I look on what she is holding, or by. Like for example, I was on this ship taking a tour and she was holding a can of soda. I just was like damn that pop is expensive. Thats one of my ways to start a conversation, now lets say your half way in and your like **** I ran out. Well instead of tell her your thoughts ask her about what she thinks, more often she will reveal more like she will be Yeah I like to put makeup on, my mom always helped me out. I would then build off her mom, and be like something along with her mom. ect. You just build the conversation, women love to talk, you just sit there look pretty, listen and just asks questions.
Ps. the girl with the soda, lame approach yes, but I got her to move closer to me, and I did obtain that number from her. Though I never called her haha.
 

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anything is better than nothing imo... for an opener it is not bad to point out at something in her general environment and talk about it like those pretzals that she's munching on. and then from there i talk about restraunts, stores, partys, etc... i think a lot of people will make the mistake of letting the interaction go after she shuts up. i myself just tend to hang on in there and work towards it being a successful interaction until she flat out tells me no or she asks me to leave....which thankfully rarely happens to me. if she's ignoring you that means shes probably busy and it wouldn't be that bad to leave, and that's ok if you closed her anyway. so in general be fearless with your desire for her but keep it normal like an everyday interaction.
 
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