guys..i need URGENT help..for the next 12 hours!!

[sfeclipse]

hey guys...asap advice needed...so far, been going per the bible and working fine...but i've come to a confusing situation.

got a girls # last sat night at a club. really nice and everything. i wanted to talk and close within 10 minutes but after getting the # , she wanted me to hang around and so we talked for abt 15-20 mins..and then i took off.

called her wed night around 9:30...she was on the line with someone else when she answered but still talked to me for like 4-5 minutes...and she remembered me really well and sounded pretty happy i called. so anyways, i kept it short and asked her out for sunday around 6 in the evening for some coffee. she said she was free ..i asked her for her address so i could pick her up...she reminded me that she was on another call and that now she had my # from caller id and she would sms me her address. i said ok, and i'll see her on sunday then...she replied that we'd prob talk before that and that was that.

its sat 7 in the evening...and i still haven't recvd any sms or call from her...? i mean there's still tonight and tomorrow morning and she might call then...but i'm just a little skeptical. should i do anything from my side or just wait and if she doesn't call/sms by tomorrow afternoon, to just erase the # and move on...?

thanks!
-not so much AFC..not so much DJ (yet!)

 

[smooth666]

Chill out man!

It is her move,anything else would be AFCish.

If she does not call you,who cares: NEXT!!!!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don't call her before sunday noon - there may be a possibility that she lost your number. If she had it but didn't wish to call you but now wants to reschedule after you called her - tell her that she is not obligated and that if she was interested she would have called you days ago. There should be no lame excuses - her interest seemed to be high - who knows!

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by sfeclipse
hey guys...asap advice needed...so far, been going per the bible and working fine...but i've come to a confusing situation.

got a girls # last sat night at a club. really nice and everything. i wanted to talk and close within 10 minutes but after getting the # , she wanted me to hang around and so we talked for abt 15-20 mins..and then i took off.

called her wed night around 9:30...she was on the line with someone else when she answered but still talked to me for like 4-5 minutes...and she remembered me really well and sounded pretty happy i called. so anyways, i kept it short and asked her out for sunday around 6 in the evening for some coffee. she said she was free ..i asked her for her address so i could pick her up...she reminded me that she was on another call and that now she had my # from caller id and she would sms me her address. i said ok, and i'll see her on sunday then...she replied that we'd prob talk before that and that was that.

its sat 7 in the evening...and i still haven't recvd any sms or call from her...? i mean there's still tonight and tomorrow morning and she might call then...but i'm just a little skeptical. should i do anything from my side or just wait and if she doesn't call/sms by tomorrow afternoon, to just erase the # and move on...?

thanks!
-not so much AFC..not so much DJ (yet!)

she thinks your ghey

next

 

[sfeclipse]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don't call her before sunday noon - there may be a possibility that she lost your number. If she had it but didn't wish to call you but now wants to reschedule after you called her - tell her that she is not obligated and that if she was interested she would have called you days ago. There should be no lame excuses - her interest seemed to be high - who knows!

so u think i should call tomorrow even though i didn't hear from her at all ? i guess she could've lost my # but still...oh well..i guess i'll give her the benefit of the doubt... and just play as per her behaviour on the phone.

 

[sfeclipse]

Re: Re: guys..i need URGENT help..for the next 12 hours!!

Originally posted by white_hype
she thinks your ghey

next

thanks for the witty reply

 

[AMF]

Re: Re: guys..i need URGENT help..for the next 12 hours!!

Originally posted by white_hype
Ha ha - i called you ghey!! an' i caant even spell it! d'ya hear mee?? thats tha dangnammit funniest thang since i killed a dog wiv my bare hands and momma said she wouldnt bed me anymore!

You are a waste of everybody's time, hillbilly

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

The ball is in her court. If she doesn't sms you her address then to hell with her.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I'm with PRL on this.

Call her tomorrow and confirm. It is quite possible that she dosn't have your number. Ususally when you're on the other line, you can see who's beeping in but the number doesn't get stored in the call display.

Call her and see.

It won't hurt and isn't AFC. If she flakes then move on.

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

URGENT???!

Is your mothers life at stake here?

RELAX dude. YOu are not diffusing a nuclear bomb here.

Her interest level is already high so you wont be AFC if you just call to see wassup.

 

[sfeclipse]

i guess urgent was a lil' overboard

anyways...an update!

went out clubbing tonight with my crew...we ended up in the same club where i met her last week. long story short, i was dancing and saw her there...with these 2 guys. they were there last week as well and she had introduced me to them as friends...when i was talking to her last weekend and wanted to close and leave, i told her that her friends looked bored and it would be alright to go back to them and that i would call her some time...she didn't seem too bothered about 'em

anyways...i don't think she noticed me...but me and my friends were hanging out near the exit and i saw her leaving so i tapped her shoulder on the way and she saw me...smiled ..said wassup..the usual stuff. i then asked her abt her address which she was gonna sms...she told me to give her my phone and she entered the address in there and confirmed what time i was comin tomorrow...all in all a good night....surprisingly one of her friends whom she was leaving with remembered my name. honestly i wouldn't have if i were in his place!

i got a few second opinions on the situation. one from a german guy (guys prespective) and one from an australian asian girl (girls prespective)...german guy thinks that reason she was hesitant and didn't sms me the address was cos she really doesn't know me and that in europe, a girl would never give her address until after having met a few times. the asian australian girl was helpful cos the girl in play is also australian asian she said the same thing..that the address and picking up is a little too forward but to not worry about it. anyways...got 2 other numbers tonight so i'm not really sweatin it thanks for your help guys.