"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, I need help.

benchod

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Hey Guys, I have read all kinds of crap, but when I go out clubbing or something my mood just changes and whatever I learn, seems like a forgotten lessons.

I dont know what to do, and this is bothering me so much.

I am looking for a fresh start , and I am 22 know..so any ideas ?

What did you guys do to over come this ?

Ben
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reagan

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As everyone says here, it doesn't matter how much you read. If you just stay at this site and read, all you can be is like shezzler and post crap online. You have to just grab your balls and go up to girls.

It's like riding a bike, you gotta get on the bike, and you're going to crash before you learn to do it right.
 

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Originally posted by Reagan
As everyone says here, it doesn't matter how much you read. If you just stay at this site and read, all you can be is like shezzler and post crap online. You have to just grab your balls and go up to girls.

It's like riding a bike, you gotta get on the bike, and you're going to crash before you learn to do it right.
For some reason I think you might be that Charisman dude or how ever you spell it....
 
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