Guys, I got this chick right where I want her, right?

[Kal0051]

K, so something interesting has happened lately. A while back I made a online dating profile but I became bored with none of the girls I messaged responding so I stopped using it. But in the last week I've had 4 girls message me on it. So I've been chatting with them. 1 seems low interest, another I'm chatting with just because I'm giving her career advice (she's not interested in me but she's joining the military soon and I've been through that, so giving her pointers and sharing stories). A 3rd girl is interested but I don't find her really attractive, will probably just joke around and have fun with her. And the 4th girl is what this thread is about.

Anyway, we'll call the 4th girl K. K contacted me and we sent a bunch of messages back and forth, basically talking about school, travelling, music, career goals. After about 4-5 messages back and forth she says I should add her to msn so we could talk. I said sure, but that she should give me her phone # too. She didn't give me her # at that time, she wanted to talk online first.

A couple of days later (Monday night) I see her online. We talk for awhile, talking about music again, and just joking around. I also told her about a party I was going to that night (which was a lot of fun). Anyway, I have to leave for the party so I just said "I g2g, but I hope to talk to you soon " and she gives me her number.

I sent her a text or 2 that night on my way home from the party, just cracking jokes to pass the time on the bus. And today she started sending multiple texts, asking me what I'm doing. I invited her to come out and chill with me and my friends but she said she would be too nervous and would prefer to meet me one on one. So I sent her a message late tonight saying that we should go for a drink in the next day or 2, to which she responded "k text me in the daytime tomorrow ;p".

Does it sound like I got this girl right where I want her as far as her interest is concerned? Do you think this could turn into a case of her chasing me (which seems to be the best situation for guys)? Thanks for any insight guys, it's not often that I get a girl interested in me so I'm fairly ignorant in this regard.

 

[CarlitosWay]

K, so something interesting has happened lately. A while back I made a online dating profile but I became bored with none of the girls I messaged responding so I stopped using it. But in the last week I've had 4 girls message me on it. So I've been chatting with them. 1 seems low interest, another I'm chatting with just because I'm giving her career advice (she's not interested in me but she's joining the military soon and I've been through that, so giving her pointers and sharing stories). A 3rd girl is interested but I don't find her really attractive, will probably just joke around and have fun with her. And the 4th girl is what this thread is about.

Anyway, we'll call the 4th girl K. K contacted me and we sent a bunch of messages back and forth, basically talking about school, travelling, music, career goals. After about 4-5 messages back and forth she says I should add her to msn so we could talk. I said sure, but that she should give me her phone # too. She didn't give me her # at that time, she wanted to talk online first.

A couple of days later (Monday night) I see her online. We talk for awhile, talking about music again, and just joking around. I also told her about a party I was going to that night (which was a lot of fun). Anyway, I have to leave for the party so I just said "I g2g, but I hope to talk to you soon " and she gives me her number.

I sent her a text or 2 that night on my way home from the party, just cracking jokes to pass the time on the bus. And today she started sending multiple texts, asking me what I'm doing. I invited her to come out and chill with me and my friends but she said she would be too nervous and would prefer to meet me one on one. So I sent her a message late tonight saying that we should go for a drink in the next day or 2, to which she responded "k text me in the daytime tomorrow ;p".

Does it sound like I got this girl right where I want her as far as her interest is concerned? Do you think this could turn into a case of her chasing me (which seems to be the best situation for guys)? Thanks for any insight guys, it's not often that I get a girl interested in me so I'm fairly ignorant in this regard.

DO NOT TEXT
Just freakin' call her forget the freakin' texts only use em later on after you guys have a much better rapport or to double check a time/place after plans were made verbally bla bla bla....

Call up her and speak with up most confidence as if it was an old acquaintance you were speaking to....speak lively, smile. You're living life!!! You're single chatting it up with a cute chic. You don't second guess ****, you say "hun I know this awesome spot we'll go so and so night at this time" Be affirmative but not overly controlling.

Let things roll smoothly but let her know you are fun loving and enjoy taking the reins so to speak through conversations and she's just going along for the ride. if She sounds hesitant or says an excuse say "pfft whatever girl you're so boring!" then say "I g2g run some errands tho I'll talk to you later hun!" *click*

Short, sweet, sexy, smooth, tease and keep it simple is all you need to remember. Always let her know subtly you're a sexual man and you're not afraid to show it. Push them subconscious buttons buddy!!

 

[Iceberg]

I don't know man. All this electronic sh** is weird. You two could meet up and not vibe each other at all.

So, all I can say is when you two meet, you're starting from square one. Screw all that internet/texting crap. You don't really know her, and she doesn't really know you. Treat it that way...stay cool, keep her interest levels up, and you'll do fine. But no, you don't have her where you want her because of some internet stuff and texting.

 

[Kal0051]

Yeah, your right about me getting ahead of myself.

Anyway, we did meet up. She came out with me to do a few things tonight. She seemed nervous but I thought she had a good time. She asked me lots of questions about myself. And we did kiss a bit before we parted ways. I did mention that we should go out again next week, to which she said she was too busy next week (which may be true). So going no contact for at least a week.