Guys.......I cant even explain it

[PVSSY-EATER]

HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

Okay, I know some of you are going to think I am crazy, but fvck it, I am!!

I have been reading alot of Pooks articles and I have basically been creating my own destiny and world and I have gotten to the point (and yes this is true) where I dont even need women! (and hell no I aint gay)

But guys............whats the whole fvcking point of this ****!


At the end of the day, I am alone, with me, and my fvcking dream! I walk around all day with focus totally on myself and I feel great, but....................I STILL AINT GOT NO *****!

hehee......Look I know that I am whining, but I mean, do you guys feel this way? I dont go out chasing girls any more, I am now chasing my dream, but ATLEAST when I was chasing girls as a TOTAL afc, I still was getting some *****! Even if I had to kiss ass for it! But now, hehe, all I got is my dream, (which is unfolding very nicely might I add)

Guys, I am 21 now, and I have come through a lot of ****. I was bullied and picked on in high school and elementary, and I have gotten my ass kicked so many times, and a normal person would be so damn depressed and with so much low self esteem, but not me. Its like it just rolled off my shoulders and I am a better man for it.

But why after uniting dream and day as Pook says, and ACTUALLY being a don juan and ACTUALLY creating these starks in women, am I still alone. And please dont tell me to go out and do approaches, because thats just not me. But.....is that what I should be doing? But....if you answer yes, how in the hell does that really make me a don juan, if I go chasing women?

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

I understand but fuzzn, huh.....

its like I want to go back to a damn AFC, because at least then I was getting some. You understand me? This **** really gets me down sometimes.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

funnz, I am chasing my dreams and I have overcame a lot of bull ****! I mean, I created low self esteem dude! There aint nobody who done been embrassed and done gotten their ass kicked more times then me, even by people that I should have beat up! But my inner strenght or God, or whatever you like to call it, brought me through it and I am a better man. I dunno if I should just start doing some approaching again.

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Some things just take time...

 

[tmpgstx]

You haven't been laid yet Pvssy .. remember you saying this in an earlier post?

You may feel good now, but it's going to come crashing down on you again that you need pvssy to fullfill yourself and your life on a whole one way or another. Anyone who tells you don't need or want pvssy is wrong!! It's our main function - reproduce or engage in sex, not only for pleasure but for intimacy and a sense of being alive!

Don't come up with some pipe dream that you're going to avert needing women now, because it just won't last dude.

Sorry if this post came across a little harsh, but why kid yourself? You can't fix something if you really don't know what's wrong. Find out what's wrong and fix it! Easier said then done, but guess that's where a man really comes into play.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Just be a man and follow your natural dictates as a man and quit "reading" on how to be a man from someone else -- although neglect the aforementioned advice since you are "reading" this statement that is telling you to be a man. !

 

[chuchu]

If you're happy, then who gives a fvck

 

[skeeloo]

it's hard for anyone to help you when you're busy worrying about what other people think. People will think things, good and bad. You can't stop them from thinking when they can't even stop themselves.

Secondly you're not abnormal or anything, you just happen to be who you are. Learn to accept that first. peoples nervousness and anxeity could be turned into calmness and self-confidence once you learn to accept yourself. Don't be busy wasting time for other people to accept you when you clearly haven't. Your friends probably are jealous once they see change in you

Not having a girlfriend is a side issue. It's really not that important. Deep down you probably feel more comfortable by yourself anyway, . However if you truely want to change then you're going to have to pretty much ignore your subconscious worries and thoughts, especially the ones about what other people will think of you. Ultimately it's not important, rarely should it effect your thinking and life. Maybe you don't really like what other people talk about for the most part, if you don't then why want to get involved?

Frankly when I was younger I had the opposite problem. I was fed up of being surrounded by people, all the did was talk nonsense, and once I got my own place it was like bliss. I never got any peace in my teens and im still in my early 20's. I say enjoy yours while it lasts.

i Try doing any fun job to get my mind of girls, or at least vary your environment abit. Do voluntary work, you'll meet people through that. And heck you'll feel better because you helping other people (However shallow that sounds). Do things that will help you become a better person, instead of desiring to be like the next person. true sometimes i am tempted to go back to my afc ways but, i have developed this self worth that i cant seem to take **** from women anymore and sometimes this backfires, but i still stand my ground.

 

[Craig Reeves]

it's really tough to raise your standards - many of us can easily brag and say stuff like "yeah, i have high standards" and stuff like that, but to actually DO IT takes a lot of patience simply because the higher you raise your standards, the FEWER women you have to pick from simply because fewer women are able to MEET these standards.

 

[Interpol]

Stop reading vague, idealistic BS by Pook and read articles that will give you real, useful advice on what you can actually do to attract women.

 

[wind20mph]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
funnz, I am chasing my dreams and I have overcame a lot of bull ****! I mean, I created low self esteem dude! There aint nobody who done been embrassed and done gotten their ass kicked more times then me, even by people that I should have beat up! But my inner strenght or God, or whatever you like to call it, brought me through it and I am a better man. I dunno if I should just start doing some approaching again.

Don't chase your dreams, it isn't moving until you do so.

I got something for you... What is it that you really want?

Do be not confused of something that you are dreaming of...

You want a girl without looking like an Average Frustrated Joe?

Or you can List this Up:

1. Start by determining firmly What do you want?
2. What are the steps you are about to make for this objective of yours?
3. How are you gonna do it?
I f you don't have a plan, well... I bet you a dollar you can't explain enything happening to you.

Now wake up and Get STARTED! Slap! Slap!


wind20mph

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

guys thanks for the replies, some of you were helpful, some of you were...well, hehe.........

What I am doing now is keeping my inner strength and confidence and regardless of what the last guy said, dude, I AM NOT GOING TO STOP EMBRACING MY DREAMS!! DUH!! I mean, I am a don juan, and that is what we are supposed to be doing, what kind of advice is that? I m glad I am not a newbie, because you would steer a boat off the damn sea! (just playing guy)

And Pook is a great guy. Whether some people would like to admit that he has great advice or not is their own inner jealously issues. Women are not puzzles, and you dont need seduction. You need to know WHO YOU ARE, be a man, and step to her, and dont lose control.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

oh and by the way, I have starting approaching again, but not like I used to when I was an AFC. I read another Pook article about approaching, and it keeps it fun and I have gotten great puzzy from it. And if you guys think that Pook is an *******, thats fine. I just apprecite his advice, because it works. Geez, I hope that once I start to share my ideas with you guys, (which is what you do on a damn forum) you guys wont be jealous of me.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
oh and by the way, I have starting approaching again, but not like I used to when I was an AFC. I read another Pook article about approaching, and it keeps it fun and I have gotten great puzzy from it. And if you guys think that Pook is an *******, thats fine. I just apprecite his advice, because it works. Geez, I hope that once I start to share my ideas with you guys, (which is what you do on a damn forum) you guys wont be jealous of me.

If his advice really worked you would've never started this thread in the first place. I'm not jealous of anyone, I'm not the one starting threads about how I can't get any.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You've yet to learn that there is a difference between wanting a woman and needing a woman. Once you understand the difference, you should feel better about yourself.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Interpol whatever man...

My whole point in starting this post was not that I wasnt gettin any, it was that I was putting all my attention and energy on my dream and I looked up and realized that damn, I need some puzzy. So I just made some adjustments, balanced some things out, damn. I worship God, I dont worship any man, but I cant seriously understand how a DON JUAN wannabe or in the making, can read a Pook post like Be A Man, or something else, and not get anything positive out of that. I seriously dont understand it. The guy is just trying to help and you bash him like that. Hell, I aint the president of the Pook fan club, but I just got one question, If you got all the answers, then this is a forum, post them then.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Interpol whatever man...

My whole point in starting this post was not that I wasnt gettin any, it was that I was putting all my attention and energy on my dream and I looked up and realized that damn, I need some puzzy. So I just made some adjustments, balanced some things out, damn. I worship God, I dont worship any man, but I cant seriously understand how a DON JUAN wannabe or in the making, can read a Pook post like Be A Man, or something else, and not get anything positive out of that. I seriously dont understand it. The guy is just trying to help and you bash him like that. Hell, I aint the president of the Pook fan club, but I just got one question, If you got all the answers, then this is a forum, post them then.

The thing with Pook's posts is that they are good at giving you theoretical motivation but not so good at giving you solid information you can use to elevate your game above average.

When newbies show up on this board, the intitial advice given is usally "Go read the bible and stuff by Pook". This is not terrible initial advice because Pook's posts are good at turning around your initial mindset and counteracting the learned helplessness that is typical of AFCs.

The problem comes when people invest too much into the concept of "being a Don Juan" which is quite honestly meaningless. Then these same people end up coming back here and posting about how they've gotten in shape and bought new clothes and "feel like a man" but yet they still aren't getting any pvssy. This is because Pook's theoretical fantasy land advice doesn't actually mean a whole lot when you're out in a club competing with 15 other guys for that HB10 at the bar.

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by chuchu
If you're happy, then who gives a fvck

So very true.

Whatever path or decision you choose to make, if you're truly happy with it, there's nothing wrong with it even if everyone else thinks you're a fool. You don't need assurances for your choices. What you need is conviction. With conviction comes confidence and more focus on you instead of others.

"Read the Bible", "Read (insert someones login name here)'s post" and whatever sort of advice is only meant for those people who are looking for it. A person might have excellent advice on picking up girls but it would be a waste of time for him to give it to a gay dude.

If following your dream is extremely important to you, then the only advice anyone should give you is to do it and live it.

 

[squirrels]

All right...I'm going to break this down for you.

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

Okay, I know some of you are going to think I am crazy, but fvck it, I am!!

I have been reading alot of Pooks articles and I have basically been creating my own destiny and world

How have you been doing this? What have you changed about your "world"? Or did you just jumble up the frame again in your head?

and I have gotten to the point (and yes this is true) where I dont even need women! (and hell no I aint gay)

Bullsh!t...and I'll prove it to you:

But guys............whats the whole fvcking point of this ****!
At the end of the day, I am alone, with me, and my fvcking dream! I walk around all day with focus totally on myself and I feel great, but....................I STILL AINT GOT NO *****!

Point proved. You claim you don't need women, but this is like the third post of this nature this week out of you...you're like, "OK, now I'm a man, I'm a DJ, I'm happy with myself...WHY AM I NOT GETTING LAID?! WAAAH!!!

Reading a Pook story does not make you a man. Looking in the mirror and saying, "I'm a man now" does not make you a man. As Morpheus told Neo in The Matrix: "There's a difference between KNOWING the path...and WALKING the path." You may know it better than anyone here, but until you take that first step, you'll never BELIEVE any of it.

hehee......Look I know that I am whining, but I mean, do you guys feel this way?

Funnily enough, yes...all the time. Especially recently, because I've slipped back into inaction lately.

I dont go out chasing girls any more, I am now chasing my dream, but ATLEAST when I was chasing girls as a TOTAL afc, I still was getting some *****!

What dream are you chasing? Are you chasing this dream because it's something YOU WANT? Or are you chasing it because you think it will bring you pvssy? If it's the latter, then pvssy is your real dream and you're deceiving yourself. Your dreams are things you want for YOU, not things you measure your success in by the number of women who flock to you.

Even if I had to kiss ass for it! But now, hehe, all I got is my dream, (which is unfolding very nicely might I add)

Guys, I am 21 now, and I have come through a lot of ****. I was bullied and picked on in high school and elementary, and I have gotten my ass kicked so many times, and a normal person would be so damn depressed and with so much low self esteem, but not me. Its like it just rolled off my shoulders and I am a better man for it.

Be careful with that tough skin...the pain rolls off it, but so does the pleasure. So do the risks that lead to rewards. I know, because I was there.

But why after uniting dream and day as Pook says, and ACTUALLY being a don juan and ACTUALLY creating these starks in women, am I still alone. And please dont tell me to go out and do approaches, because thats just not me.

Not every woman you meet is going to be the result of some scripted "approach". Don't even think of it as "approaching". Learn to interact with women without making each pass, each number, each kiss look like a desperate attempt to achieve something. It's not an "approach", like you're going down the Death Star tunnel dodging TIE fighters of rejection and laser-towers of sh!t-tests trying to get your "proton torpedo" in her "exhaust port".

But.....is that what I should be doing? But....if you answer yes, how in the hell does that really make me a don juan, if I go chasing women?

You're asking the wrong people. The answer to that question,. "what makes me a man??" is different for every man. You'll have to find it on your own.

Why are you chasing women, man? Are you attracted to them? Do they make you feel good and excited when you're near them? Do you have a longing to be naked with them? To share intimate conversations and experiences with them? To have companionship?

Or are you chasing them because you think that once you attain them, you'll suddenly understand your destiny in this universe? That you'll suddenly feel like "a man" and be fulfilled by this event, by consummating with a woman?

Or that you feel a need to measure up in front of other men because getting women seems to be the "in" thing to do right now??

Which is it?

Because honestly, at this point, I think you want women more than anything else in the world, despite your desperate claims to the contrary, but you have NO IDEA WHY.

Like you said....you can't even explain it.

So look inside yourself and tell us...WHY do you want a woman in your life right now?

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Okay squirrels, finally, I guess we can have an intelligent conversation....okay you ready?

Growing up, I was the one who was always picked on, always rejected, never really had a girlfriend, and was somewhat of a nerd, okay.

When I first came to this website, I didnt join until some months afterward, but I started to read up on the DJ Bible and all the tactics and techniques on how to get women, okay.

I then started to develop into a jerk. I was getting more women into bed then ever and I do mean EVER before in my life. I first found this site when in about October of 2004 I think, and then I joined about in February of this year. I am 21 by the way.

The problem was this..........all day long, all I would think about was techniques and tactics, and when I would see a girl I wanted to approach, I would put on fake confidence and fake arrogant airs to get her to like me. Even my jerkish attitude was fake, okay. But I guess I played it off well, because they stilled wanted me, okay.

Now, inside of me during this time, I was still unhappy. I had no joy. I could not answer why at the time, because I thought that getting puzzy was what I needed to fill my void, but it wasnt.

I did read a Pook post on uniting dream and day and how you should embrace your calling and destiny in life. I tried that. And I began to have my inner joy and strength back within me, and I had gotten to the point where even if I did not have any puzzy for a week, or even hung out with any friends, I was happy and very joyful with myself and my dream, which is coming to pass, and I am so happy about it.

Okay, so I get to the point yesterday where I post the thread about how I had become so into my dream, that I had neglected puzzy in my life. And I was just afraid, that, haaahaa,, that I was becoming to contant with me, that I didnt need puzzy no more. okay.

I read some more articles on this site, and now I know that I do need it, but not in a desperate way, you understand me?

So now, I am fine. I am not perfect, but I have natural joy, I am chasing and living in my calling, and I attract women without using techniques and tactics and still get puzzy. okay.

I hope that I was not being harsh to you guys in my reply over there, but I just wanted you guys to know that I apprecite guys like Pook or Anti Dump who explains things so I can understand them. I am not bashing anybody if they dont like them or like me for the matter.

So, thats my reply. I hope there is no beef between us, I think some of your posts are great. But if you still dont like me, its still fine..........nothing I can do about that anyway. I just believe that once you learn you should practise, and then you will grow. Okay.