"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guys how i get this girl 22y/o im 19

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alright guys heeres the situation i work at a pizza resturant and there is this waitress who since day 1 has talked to me.. now im 17 but i told her im 19 and shes 22.. i heard shes a slut from people and she messed around wit 40 year olds... now i noticed when we talk shell do that eye thing and look in my right eye then left then right really fast but i always thought she was just flirting wit me because like thats her job as a waitress in the bar and stuff you know? but two girls from work just said why dont i hook up with her and i was like umm im 19 and shes 22 but they were like she dont care and they said next time i should be all over her... i dont wanan screw this up how do i do this right to bang her??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ4Real

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By not being "being all over her". They gave bad advice.....remember, you are the treat, not her. Be challenging, use C&F etc.

I don't see why you'd want to bang a "s!ut" though. I'm sure if you had higher standards, something better would come along.
 

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don't lose your cool

You can tell her the truth, or you can ignore the fact. I can tell now that you are hung up on it.

Next time you talk to her call her on the eye thing, you noticed it, maybe she didn't. Just play it really cool, let her know you know she likes you, you noticed since the first day.

After this, you should be alright, but screw it up and your one step closer to freedom buddy.
 
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shes hot and shes a slut thats why i wanan get with her...but the 2 girls also told me that if i got with her another hot bartender would think im dirty but its not like im getting with her anyway so i dont care
 

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this is for the next time you two get to the point where you both know you are together....

control the situation

"I know you like me"

than play from there
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SO what shes 22 ? Whats wrong with that. If shes a slut then its even better. Just go there and play along. Dont loose time, she may need sex. Prolly if You date her, she will show You how to have sex with her. Girls like that know how to make guy horny.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
By not being "being all over her". They gave bad advice.....remember, you are the treat, not her. Be challenging, use C&F etc.

I don't see why you'd want to bang a "s!ut" though. I'm sure if you had higher standards, something better would come along.
 
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alrihgt guys thanks i guess ill tease her about it and just be like i know u like me and stuff like that il probaley go about it like hey so this weekend me and you are hanging out right shell be like maybe ill be like i know you like mel ol
 

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Don't even worry about age.

I've banged/enticed chicks who were over seven years older than me. In fact, when I was 17, I was dating a chick who was 23 for a while.
 
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alright yah im not now that i hear that thanks guys so ill just try to flirt with her and let her know i know she likes me and well see how this works wish me luck shes hot man i always thought she was teasing me but now idk ne more
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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alrihgt guys i got bad news i think today at work like i always say sex things to her like.... if im talking to someone and shes there ill say yeah me and felica got it on last night and she said i was really good and she wants to do it again... she will laugh...i tried to throw on some more kino tongiht and she through it back a little bit... but like i noticed when were sitting in the resturant she would sit with the other girls and not next to me. also she did not really talk to me like i always started the convo.. but like everytime im waiting for my delivery and she walks by she will usually always look at me and smile i dont understand.. im really mad if i mess this up
 

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u are the prize. Giver her some isolation and she will come rolling back like a yo yo.
 
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really alrihgt i will try to back off for some but also when we talk throw in some kino and things just to kind of throw her off
 
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