"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys here who have an excellent love life/dating life but struggle in other areas

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would you trade your life with mine?

Most people here are already familiar with my story but for the ones who are not - the rest of my life is incredibly perfect outside of dating (I'm good looking, extremely fit and healthy, extraordinarily successful, have fantastic family and friends, great lifestyle, fun hobbies/interests, etc...) but I've had zero real dating success in my life. I've never even had sex with a attractive girl who was my age. I find dating and women to be overwhelmingly difficult in general.

very curious what the responses are going to be.
I´m 31. Girlfriend of year and a half who loves me. Working as a teacher. Yeah I would trade my life with yours any day of the week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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