Guys here who are very picky, where have you had best luck meeting who you like?

[bigdave17]

online dating? bars?


People say through friends is the best but what the **** are my odds of meeting a cute Spanish or Italian 25 year old chick into fitness with no kids through a friend randomly?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Do your parents have a dog? Go to dog parks and or hiking trails. Look for chicks wearing yoga pants walking their dog. Join a jogging group that does 5-10ks? Fück did I mention I love yoga chicks. She was battshït but damn what a great lay, amazing tight body.

 

[BeExcellent]

My ex has a buddy in the military who routinely meets hot women at hot yoga. Target rich environment of cute women, not much competition, an activity to discuss, and a workout all rolled up into one thing. Win, win, win, win.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Partner dancing classes. Tons of cute, classy women who usually do yoga and gym a lot too. You learn how to dance, you meet girls, you get lots of new social circles.

Usually hardly any competition because for some reason most guys are scared of dancing with women or see it as effeminate.

If you’re the sort of guy who thinks dancing with women is “gay” but American Football/Rugby is “straight”...I’m standing at boobs-on-my-chest, thighs-on-mine distance with a hot chick...you’re wrestling with sweaty men in a muddy field.

Food for thought.

 

[bigdave17]

In shape Latin/Italian women in their mid 20s with no kids isn't that hard to find, Dave. I see women who fit that description every time I leave my house.

YOU want more than that, and this is where your problem resides. You want things that require getting to know a woman; things you cannot screen for simply by looking at a woman.

No matter where you go, Dave, if there were 100 women there that fit the physical appearance you desire, most of them will not make the cut based on your list of requirements. Of the handful who might qualify, you're likely to find they may not be looking, may not be ready to settle down, etc. and even if you do find that one, you then have to overcome the most difficult part of all: she has to like you too. You have to fit her desires too.

150k/yr. might not cut it. She may not like your personality. She may not be interested in having kids. There are many things that can end it for her.

The more particular you are, the more women you are going to have to go through to find it. Your list is going to require you to make the effort in getting to know hundreds of women to screen for what you want, if not more.

The suggestions above are great, for men who want to meet attractive women who don't spend all of their time in bars. But for you, it's unlikely to help because you don't understand the numbers game

you're putting yourself into with this list of requirements you developed.

I've never suggested this before, but I think you would have the best odds hiring a matchmaking service. Not OLD. But actually hiring people to find that girl for you and setting up a date.

If you're that serious, if you make the money you say you do, if you have the social charisma you claim to have...meeting a woman this way may be your best bet.

Any woman you match up with this way will not only be close to what you want, but you will also be close to what she may be looking for. And if she is paying for a service like that, you know she's serious about finding someone.

It's a costly path, but I think it's your only shot.

Only other option is to chill, learn to enjoy the company of women in general and hope you get lucky finding that unique gem you dream about.

what about online dating?


My friend met a hot 29 year old Lebanese dentist online, she is awesome


edit: great post by the way

 

[RangerMIke]

Parties, festivals, networking events.... Yoga practice... take up yoga, it's great for your health and the chicks are awesome. Also get involved with organizations you are interested in. Volunteer to take leadership roles in those organizations and you have rapport and build in social proof.

I'm really surprised that more men have not figured this out.

 

[derby1]

OP I shake my head in disbelief at every post you put!

I can see why corey wayne charges obscene amounts now, for the advice we give free!! so that hes still had his money when you havent took NOTE!!

when this hotbod your looking for finally arrives, that youve waited for your DREAM GIRL....i hope you get her thats a genuine comment from me

but she is going to hang you out to dry Bro youve been told how insecure you are,

when she says you a player? you wont know wtf to say!!!,
you think your posh dont ya dressed like that for the area wel live in!??! youll freeze and look anally shafted!!..
when she says i dont have sex on the first date..!! youll stutter like youve got some speach impediment

Spin 5's so that when you find this 8 you are ready and you can see her 1x a week whilst you get advice from us

 

[bigdave17]

when she says you a player? you wont know wtf to say!!!,
you think your posh dont ya dressed like that for the area wel live in!??! youll freeze and look anally shafted!!..
when she says i dont have sex on the first date..!! youll stutter like youve got some speach impediment

1)I'll laugh it off

2)I tell her I love to dress nice, why is that a bad thing?

3)I would certainly hope she doesn't have sex on the first date. Hopefully she waits until date 3 or 4. You know I'm looking for high class females right?

 

[bigdave17]

I've met all kinds of women like that through OLD, lawyers and the like, but I'm much more care free and less particular with it. But quality attracts quality.

It won't kill you to utilize it, but I would suggest doing an advanced/ detailed search for the kind of girl you're looking for before jumping into it. If only 3 or 4 pop up in your search results, probably isn't worth it. It's still a numbers game.

But as I said, with your requirements, don't expect OLD to lead to a lot of productivity. It's just another poker in the fire.

You think my standards are that specific??


I feel like any cute girl my age who has a decent job, no kids, good personality will be good enough for me. It's not like I'm asking for a female rocket scientist who saves blind orphans in her free time

 

[QuadDeuces]

Think about what will happen to you once you find your unicorn.
Are you going to worship her like a princess since you finally found her after years of searching, put her on a pedestal, cling on to her, give her everything she desires? Because I can tell you it will not last very long before she will be bored of you.

Women are disposable goods. They all leave sooner or later, and usually in a worse shape than how you found her.

You have to have an abundance mindset, meaning not needing a girl, you're cool if she comes, you're cool if she goes.
You always have options, some are 7's but really funny or can sex or cook very good, others are 9's but bad in bed or have ****ty personalities.

I recommend always have a flock of different kinds of women, that abundance will attract more and more women. and then the 9's and 10's come by themselves but you don't care so much anymore, you treat them basically like the 7s and if they get out of line you can walk away without hesitation and don't look back.

 

[bigdave17]

Think about what will happen to you once you find your unicorn.
Are you going to worship her like a princess since you finally found her after years of searching, put her on a pedestal, cling on to her, give her everything she desires? Because I can tell you it will not last very long before she will be bored of you.

hell no, I'm not needy or clingy at all

Women are disposable goods. They all leave sooner or later, and usually in a worse shape than how you found her.

You have to have an abundance mindset, meaning not needing a girl, you're cool if she comes, you're cool if she goes.
You always have options, some are 7's but really funny or can sex or cook very good, others are 9's but bad in bed or have ****ty personalities.

I recommend always have a flock of different kinds of women, that abundance will attract more and more women. and then the 9's and 10's come by themselves but you don't care so much anymore, you treat them basically like the 7s and if they get out of line you can walk away without hesitation and don't look back.

Good point

I don't think I want a 10 though. The best case scenario would be a cute, low maintenance, ethnic 7-8/10 girl who looks good without makeup

 

[derby1]

your replies are **** bro ..........when she says she doesnt have sex on the first date....you say YOU THINKING BOUT SEX ALREADY!
it means she wants to rip your clothes off, shes riding you in her mind already , but play it carefully cause one wrong move her anti slut defence will come up, you making her wait till date 3 is cool, but you DONT TELL HER THAT

not "well i should hope you dont put out till date 3 or 4 , i am looking for a lady"