guy's girlfriend flirting with me?

[pyros]

Hi.

I have this guy friend of mine that has a girlfriend. I just met his gf some months ago, and I have just spoken to her two or three times for a bit.
Last night around 10 of us went to have dinner and party. At the end of the dinner this guy's girlfriend lets call her Susan came to me just to tell me that she saw one picture of us from some weeks ago and that I really looked handsome, the most handsome from the group (her bf was in the group).

Ok I thought, I just said thank you etc. But from that moment she spent 70% of the night talking to me while her bf stared at us, or he was outside smoking or something. He tried to get her gf's attention a couple of times with no success.
At some point I stopped the conversation and got a bit away from her just to make it clear to my friend that I was not trying anything with her.

She told me how fun I am, how articulate, and that the first time she saw me she thought I was fun, but in the following times we talked she did think I was fun and that she really liked me.
I felt a bit out of place because she was talking and laughing at my jokes all the time wherever we were: restaurant, club, street, etc


Is she trying to seduce me or am I being silly for thinking so?
Im not particularly interested in her but...just curious.

Thanks.

 

[betheman]

Hi.

I have this guy friend of mine that has a girlfriend. I just met his gf some months ago, and I have just spoken to her two or three times for a bit.
Last night around 10 of us went to have dinner and party. At the end of the dinner this guy's girlfriend lets call her Susan came to me just to tell me that she saw one picture of us from some weeks ago and that I really looked handsome, the most handsome from the group (her bf was in the group).

Ok I thought, I just said thank you etc. But from that moment she spent 70% of the night talking to me while her bf stared at us, or he was outside smoking or something. He tried to get her gf's attention a couple of times with no success.
At some point I stopped the conversation and got a bit away from her just to make it clear to my friend that I was not trying anything with her.

She told me how fun I am, how articulate, and that the first time she saw me she thought I was fun, but in the following times we talked she did think I was fun and that she really liked me.
I felt a bit out of place because she was talking and laughing at my jokes all the time wherever we were: restaurant, club, street, etc


Is she trying to seduce me or am I being silly for thinking so?
Im not particularly interested in her but...just curious.

Thanks.

how would you feel if you were the BF of this tart?
she may like you, may want to fvck you, however if she really did, Im not sure she would make it so obvious. I think there is another game afoot here, maybe her BF is a bit boring and wants to create some drama, test him out.
how much of a friend is he? personally Id play this very cool and keep your distance, because if this all goes south, guess who is going to be the bad guy in all of this?
then again if you are a complete sh!t without a conscious, go for it

 

[SeymourCake]

Put yourself in his shoes. Would you want something like that to happen to your girlfriend? Of course not. Obviously she sees something you have than he does not. I would play it cool and keep my distance.

The key here is morality.

However, if you have no relations with the guy, then I would keep it on the low and set up meet ups with her.

 

[Cremasta]

I'm going to assume this guy friend is actually a friend you like and would prefer to keep.

No matter how you actually feel about the girl, it would be in your best interest to put his mind at ease. Me, I'd tell him something like "Hey I was talking to Susan for a while there, she's really nice, well done mate! Has she got any cute friends she could send my way?"

What this says to him is that 1. you were trying to get to know her, 2. you approve, and 3. you have no interest in her whatsoever.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

Hi.

I have this guy friend of mine that has a girlfriend. I just met his gf some months ago, and I have just spoken to her two or three times for a bit.
Last night around 10 of us went to have dinner and party. At the end of the dinner this guy's girlfriend lets call her Susan came to me just to tell me that she saw one picture of us from some weeks ago and that I really looked handsome, the most handsome from the group (her bf was in the group).

Ok I thought, I just said thank you etc. But from that moment she spent 70% of the night talking to me while her bf stared at us, or he was outside smoking or something. He tried to get her gf's attention a couple of times with no success.
At some point I stopped the conversation and got a bit away from her just to make it clear to my friend that I was not trying anything with her.

She told me how fun I am, how articulate, and that the first time she saw me she thought I was fun, but in the following times we talked she did think I was fun and that she really liked me.
I felt a bit out of place because she was talking and laughing at my jokes all the time wherever we were: restaurant, club, street, etc


Is she trying to seduce me or am I being silly for thinking so?
Im not particularly interested in her but...just curious.

Thanks.

Chick is either just trying to get her BF jealous and at the same time gassing your head up for her own childish attention needs. If she were a real WOMAN and didn't want to be with her boyfriend anymore she'd have left him on her own and taken time to find herself out before looking for other guys or flirting with them as a SINGLE chick NOT a taken one.

Good on you if you don't mess with chicks with boyfriends. These days no one even really respects that as the same fellow bros you look out for for the most part would NOT do the same if it were them in your shoes and your chick was smokin hot.

That's neither here nor there. You have to be the absolute best person you can be for YOURSELF. Don't rely on chicks or dudes to "validate" how you are as a person or you'll be sadly disappointed in life.

If you are serious about not wanting this chicks "attention" and are comfortable on your own even though you seem to not really "like" it you'll drop her nonsense and straighten her out telling her she needs to straighten up and either work on her relationship or end it and go do some self reflection on her own. She won't do it. Most won't but at least you can be confident on your own that you've showed her YOU are a MAN and not a desperate chump like evey other oversized clown shoe who'd fall for her attention seeking self serving IOI's.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Attention wh0re, pure and simple.
Her boyfriend probably doesn't buy into her bullsht games, so she needs to get validation from outside sources.
Some of the most outrageous flirts I've known were chicks with BFs. They just love the attention and will run a mile (straight back on their BF's dyck) if you made a move.
Ignorance is bliss. Don't buy into their bullsht.