"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, can ya help me?

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What s up guys, this is ol pvssy eatin me again....hehe

I have a question, okay, here goes..........

Guys, I have discovered the true don juan in me, and from learning all the tactis and techniques, I have naturally developed into a don juan. But this is the problem.........

I can feel the don juan inside of me, but sometimes, without even meaning to do it, I hold him back! Yes I am not crazy.

I dont know if its fear, it could be, but, I would hold back that don juan in me, and I will notice that as I am holding him back, some AFC stuff starts to naturally come out of me. I know this sounds crazy as hell! hehe

But see this the problem and the scary thought, I can actually feel the don juan(who is really the person I am) inside of me screaming at me, but I dont know why he just does not break out, and I also dont know why I am holding him back, when I never decided to hold him back! Oh my god, I hope you guys can understand what I am saying.

I am naturally a don juan, but at times I feel something withiin me holding back him, for some old reason that I dont know, my question is, how can I eliminate that thang that is holds back my natural don juan self? hehe....I hope you guys can understand me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJnoob

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unleash the beast my friend! The beast needs to be fed
 
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relax and whats the factor that holds your mentality back?

perhaps its your own mind that holds "him" back

just be calm and go with the flow
 
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Waddup with the clown ^^ above me trying to sell his website on this page...someone call a moderator...:rolleyes:

Back to the subject...bro...the reason why you are torn is that you are overanalyzing your situation. You wonder if calling 3 days after a date is AFC. You wonder if I don't number close on this girl is AFC. You wonder if bringing flowers on the 3rd date is worse than the 5th date because your tshirt is red and hers is green and its raining and the boston red sox just lost another game..

See what I'm getting at. There isn't a divided line. There is tons of grey out there when it comes to DJing. Some guys will need tons of lines, strategies, kino'ing...other guys will just be natural at it...without thinking about it.

Will both guys have success? HELL YES...but, whats the fun in cold calculated movements?

The goal is to become natural and to bottom line have fun with what you are doing. There are guidelines yes...but...your inner judgement is what will prove your success or failure. Either way..if you did it for yourself..who's to say you aren't a DJ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
how can I eliminate that thang that is holds back my natural don juan self?
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"that thang" is fear.
 
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