"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guys been with any older women??

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you guys been in a relationship with an older woman?

i have but not by a big age difference. the woman i really like now is over 30. i think even late 30's and i'm only 26. but i look older sometimes. have you ever been with women twice ur age?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The same woman at 20 that is 40 and twice your age will not be twice your age even in just 1 year. So chances are you won't find a lot of that.

@ 33 I was with a 46 year old. I did a lot of things wrong as far as maintaining the relationship but in the end she wasn't worth it anyway. Sex was great though. I don't know if it's something about that age or what but she definitely had a good attitude towards sex.

Something that bummed me out though....I thought there was no way a 46 year old would still be playing games at that age but I was wrong. If you get with someone that old forget about them being anyone else than what they show you, they are set in their ways. At the first sign of bull**** I shoulda bounced and not just let **** go/build up.

I would definitely do it again but approach the non sexual stuff much differently.
 
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@ 33 I was with a 46 year old. I did a lot of things wrong as far as maintaining the relationship but in the end she wasn't worth it anyway. Sex was great though. I don't know if it's something about that age or what but she definitely had a good attitude towards sex.

Something that bummed me out though....I thought there was no way a 46 year old would still be playing games at that age but I was wrong. If you get with someone that old forget about them being anyone else than what they show you, they are set in their ways. At the first sign of bull**** I shoulda bounced and not just let **** go/build up.

I would definitely do it again but approach the non sexual stuff much differently.
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My experience was the same.

I was 24 when I dated my first cougar (40). I've always had a thing for older women, especially when I was younger...it must have had something to do with my high school years and always wanting to screw the teachers I was attracted to.

With those women, I just screwed them and left them or never heard from them again. Then back in 2008, I dated a 40 year old for 1.5 years and for the life of me, I don't know how I let it go on for so long and how I developed oneitis for that chick....sh*t still haunts me.

Anyways, she is the reason as to why I first started coming to this forum. In my experience, many of these women do want relationships and it's just something I would say isn't really worth it. As the above poster said, they are pretty set in their ways and will cause you a lot of unnecessary drama.

Can't say I won't do it again, because I still have that damn fetish in me but if I ever end up the situation again, I'll just pump em and dump em.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I slept with a 34 year old at age 19 (that is, I was 19), anyways it was okay sex, the oral sex wasn't fun for me and I mean receiving it.. eh well, giving it was kind of gross for me too, she really looked something attractive for her age, thin, blonde, probably an 8 on a scale of 11. Overall not my kind of thing, I'd rather someone younger than me.
 
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I've banged a couple of older women. Basically their bodies don't look as good (more sagging and wear and tear) and their vaginas tend to be loose.

On the plus side a lot of them have skills because they're experienced. Also, if you're young and good looking they won't play as many games as the women your own age.
 
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Im Talking About Relationships, I Dont Care If U Banged Them!
 
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Im Talking About Relationships, I Dont Care If U Banged Them!
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All I can say about relationships with older women is "don't". Screwing a couple of cougars is fine if you're young. It'll give you some experience. If you're young and horny you'll bang anything anyway, so who cares if she's not a 19 year old hottie.

But older women aren't good relationship material, especially not for younger guys. They have baggage and issues. If you give them a chance they'll try to lay that crap on you. So when it comes to cougars pump and dump is the best policy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well everyones saying older women are the best for long term and are the most mature. now you guys are saying they aren't. well then im pretty fuked then cause young girls are definitely not for long term either! although the woman i am with is asian and a virgin. she might not have any baggage because shes never been with a man. well nothing serious anyway.
 
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NO! I like my girls young. Im in my 30's & if the girl isn't tight I can't be aroused.
I just banged a 40yr old with 2 kids! What a mess. never again! She's beautiful but the stretch marks & pancake tits were disgusting!!! I couldn't even get hard! I blamed the condoms. I made her orgasm but it was tough

For relationships yea the older chicks sometimes are better. But I wrote o another thread that some of the older chicks are crazier than the younger ones. so really it's all about feelin em out bro! No age guarantees stability with any person
 
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chance said:
errm, i meant have you been in a relationship with an older woman :)

the actor aaron johnson, 20 years old, have a baby together with his girlfriend taylor wood, 43.

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You do realize that a 43 year old woman having a kid is like winning the lottery. Americans have been lied to. If you want a child marry a female at least in her early 20's. If not you will be spending much money on fertility treatments.
 
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AFAIC I don't want kids. BTW, I'll date an older woman any day of the week over a younger woman.
 
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