"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's up with a lot guys refering to women as "sluts"??? Guys, think about what the f**k you're doing, seriously! This is exactly why a lot of times chicks won't "put out", and then you same guys will b*tch and complain about how hard it is to get laid. That's cause men bring it upon themselves. Men are their own worst enemies. The more men keep mocking women by calling them "sluts" and "*****s", the less they're going to "put out". THINK SMART!! If you want them to put out, quit calling them sluts and set a new trend!

I'll very rarely, if ever, take a woman's side, but when it comes to this, i will. I never understood why men think they're an exception and can f**k as many chicks as they please, but when women do it, they're thrown into the "slut" category. Double standard right there! Makes no sense! We're all sexual beings, both male and female, we should all have sex with as many as we wish. Women have a right to be just as sexual as men! There's nothing wrong with a woman who sleeps with 15 guys every 2 weeks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Or maybe rather we should CONTINUE calling women who sleep around sluts, but now also call guys that do the same sluts or man-*****s instead of "studs"

You could even it out THAT way too.
 

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Better yet, why don't people just stop being so judgmental and pay more attention to their own lives. It's takes no effort to denounce people and to call them names, any @sshole can do it. What takes real effort is to remove yourself from worrying about other people and to work on cleaning up your own back yard.
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Or maybe rather we should CONTINUE calling women who sleep around sluts, but now also call guys that do the same sluts or man-*****s instead of "studs"

You could even it out THAT way too.
Why??? Neither men nor women should be referred to as sluts and man*****s. Like i said, we're all sexual beings, and there's nothing wrong with that. Sleeping with a lot of people is part of being a human being. There is nothing wrong with that.
 

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My post was in sarcasm. Personally, I could care less about labels. But I thought it'd be fun to go the opposite direction and suggest labeling EVERYONE instead of not labeling ANYONE.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Better yet, why don't people just stop being so judgmental and pay more attention to their own lives. It's takes no effort to denounce people and to call them names, any @sshole can do it. What takes real effort is to remove yourself from worrying about other people and to work on cleaning up your own back yard.
Damn straight!
 

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... who cares? Look, it's a word in the dictionary, use it as you please.

slut ( P ) Pronunciation Key (slt)
noun.

A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
A woman prostitute.
A slovenly woman; a slattern.
 

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You make a good point, but when it comes time to settle down, as most of you fools will, you will be agitated over your slutty girlfriend or wives' past.

I agree with sfalexi. Men should not be sluts either.

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PS : Even Player Supreme doesn't sleep with 15 girls in 2 weeks... only real sluts can and will do this. Show lack of self respect...

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
PS : Even Player Supreme doesn't sleep with 15 girls in 2 weeks... only real sluts can and will do this. Show lack of self respect...

Dietzcoi
What does it have to do with self respect???? Just because someone sleeps around a lot doesn't mean they have a lack of self respect. Both have nothing to do with each other. You've let the illogical thinking of society condition you, that's why you think that way. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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women get sex more than guys and basically get to pick and choose who they want to fvck. Some men are jealous of this and refer to women as being sluts.
 

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Originally posted by saki
women get sex more than guys and basically get to pick and choose who they want to fvck.
Yup, that's exactly what it is....that's why female prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. Because men don't get sex as much as females do. Only a handful of men will get laid.
 
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