"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys and standards

skeeloo

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how many of you guys actually have standards when it come to banging a chick. do you guys really have the time to guage her attractiveness level?.becuase once the urge comes i know standards are usually out the window for most guys even some girls too. afaterall isnt it all the same inside(if you know what i mean) no matter if she's fat or what. a hb or ug girl. its still the same thing youre after , thats to burst a nutt.

i had this college roomate for six months. good looking dude. but had this funny fantasy. he mainly only liked to bang on ugly or fats girls he says it turns him on.

do you guys really have standards or anything comes you knock it?. where do you draw the line. if you were on a desert with a ug4, for 3 days would you hit it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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skeeloo said:
...do you guys really have standards or anything comes you knock it?. where do you draw the line. if you were on a desert with a ug4, for 3 days would you hit it?
Guys tend to get into trouble when they put such a high importance on sex being a intricate portion of their livelihood.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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skeeloo said:
if you were on a desert with a ug4, for 3 days would you hit it?
the funny thing is...

by the end of first day the chick will be a "HB"10 in your eyes.

kinda like a fat person being stuck on an island with his best friend... all he'll see is a chicken leg walking around.
 

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I'd fvck a 56 year old if she's hot enough. The only standard are AI's, because I'm not gonna go chasing her, although that's what I was doing at first.

So it's AI's, and she has to be not that fat, pretty face, and not hairy.
 
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i have standards, theres some hoes i wouldnt even touch even if they beg me with their legs open.

And i hate this kind of behaviour on dudes because they would be givin the hoe a huge ego so now she will think she can do better than you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kwello

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I literally can't get it up if the girl doesn't completely turn me on.
 

sparky0000

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Most guys will "hit" anything. If this wasn't the case you would all be running around Eastern Europe with me. Actually, I am a bit jealous of most on here. It sucks not being interested in anything but the truly beautiful. That is why I was glad to see Kwello's comment. Most every guy on here will lie to himself and say that a female is good looking when deep down he just wants to get a piece. In my case, I would rather be all alone than share time with something that wasn't pure beauty. Not "hot", but beautiful. There is a BIG difference.
 

bigjohnson

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sparky0000 said:
Most guys will "hit" anything.
Here are some EE "ladies" for you... 1, 2, 3. I guess beauty is really in the eye of the beholder.
 

Wyldfire

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bigjohnson said:
Here are some EE "ladies" for you... 1, 2, 3. I guess beauty is really in the eye of the beholder.
American women age a hell of a lot better than those women. My youngest daughter's grandmother is about 77 years old and she looks about 57 tops. She's a size 6, dark brown hair, minimal wrinkles and has never had any cosmetic surgery.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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