Bit of background; my girlfriend of 14 months has this need to tell me everything, otherwise she feels guilty about it... it generally revolves around guys she's been with in the past, but really dumb stuff, like making out in a club or something - she's only ever slept with one guy prior to me.
It's like a weekly thing now where she say's she remembered something, like the time she made out with a guy in a club, and she needs to tell me about it because she walked past him at university and it reminded her of it. It's pretty much because she regrets her past and want's to be honest about it.
I've done alot of **** in the past that i'm not proud of, but if I get asked about it, i'm honest and then I move on... I don't fixate on things and 99% of the time I don't even remember because i've moved on and put it behind me.
I've ended up getting really pissed off because I don't need to constantly hear about every dumb time she's made out with a guy, I don't need that floating around my head while I've got other things to get on with. I told her we're not 12 years old, and that I don't need the highschool-like gossip of who-kissed-who and all that. That basically ended up in her getting really upset lastnight.
It's like a weekly thing now where she say's she remembered something, like the time she made out with a guy in a club, and she needs to tell me about it because she walked past him at university and it reminded her of it. It's pretty much because she regrets her past and want's to be honest about it.
I've done alot of **** in the past that i'm not proud of, but if I get asked about it, i'm honest and then I move on... I don't fixate on things and 99% of the time I don't even remember because i've moved on and put it behind me.
I've ended up getting really pissed off because I don't need to constantly hear about every dumb time she's made out with a guy, I don't need that floating around my head while I've got other things to get on with. I told her we're not 12 years old, and that I don't need the highschool-like gossip of who-kissed-who and all that. That basically ended up in her getting really upset lastnight.