"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guys always asking my G/F out

spaceman2001

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I'm getting sick of it. They're always checking her out, hitting on her, sometimes right in front of me. I'm not jealous, but man sometimes you have to think it's only a matter of time before someone she thinks is hot approaches her and she hooks up with behind my back or something...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SynapsyS

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You need to read the Bible again. You shouldn't even be thinking any of this, rather, you should be taking it as a compliment that your girlfriend is highly desirable. If you had any confidence at all, you wouldn't even worry about it.
 

spaceman2001

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Yeah but there are guys better looking and taller.. and smoother than me that approach her.
 

DJDamage

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Nobody said having a hot girlfriend was easy.

There will always be someone better then you out there. If deep down you know that there are guys out there who are better then you then maybe you don't deserve your girlfriend after all.

You need to date other women more so you will get more experience and be comfortable in your own skin.

DjDamage
 

Cruise

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Yup... bottom line.

Sorry to be the bad advocate... but... "as a man thinketh, so is he." Run with that.

Personally, if I know I couldn't compete 'gamewise' with another prospective customer... I'd get extremely good at stalling other guys out with attitude. Right when you see someone trying to approach your girl in front of you, do the Tyler number... block him out with your arm, look at him with a condascending smirk, say something like, "hey, nice jacket buddy, alright..." and just look back at your girl and continue on your way with her. From there on totally ignore the guy.

Dominate the environment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Potbelly

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godsgifttowomen said:
Here's one that would work in a school setting..

Player (to my girl): Hey what's your name ma?
007: Hey bro, real quick, you got a pen I can borrow?
Player: Sure, here
007: (Throws pen) Fetch. (While buring a whole through him w/ my eyes)

haha

007
hahaha nice one!

Here's another:

Player: ow ow!! hey hot stuff!!
Pot: sorry man, I'm taken!

I got that off of WMS or something, but it's field tested and hilariously approved. :up:
 

Jariel

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Same happens to my girlfriend, but it just makes me feel proud that she's with me. Besides, women are always checking me out too.

In many way's it's a positive thing as we both have options and know we can't take each other for granted.
 

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If she wanted a taller, hotter, and smoother person she would never have chosen you in the first place. The fact that she made you her boyfriend should be enough assurance that you have nothing to worry about.

But then again, infidelity does exist.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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I happens with my girlfriend lots of time, basicly everywhere we go. I really dont have the time to handle every mother****er who thinks he has a shot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cruise

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Be her treat some days... as if you're picking her up again for the first time. Teasing, flirting, blah blah blah...

Then on other days, when you're too exhausted to compete with these clowns... DON'T. Just lay back and chill.

BE HUMAN.

If you're looking toward making this a deeper relationship, then you two have to grow deeper with each other. Discover and pursue your goals, invite her in on your dreams, set the bar, and go for something bigger than the both of you combined ... that's if you're ready for that. If you are, great. If she's not, that's great also. That just means, IN THIS VERY CONTEXT, that she wasn't meant for you in a LTR.
 

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Does she feel the same about you?

What I mean is, would she start to get a little jealous if other women were coming up to you all the time?

If you think she would, then there is your solution. Try and get as much female attention as you can, so the balance evens out. It may not stop guys coming up to her as much but it may make her appreciate what she's got more (and possibly prevent her cheating later on)
 

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i'm with bondage on this. balance the playing field. you got a girlfriend(use those powers). women are far more attracted to a man with a woman, its a challenge to them. plus it makes you hugely attractive when a girl hits on you to your woman.

just a question though. does your gut instinct give you a bad vibe, when she recieves this attention from other men. the gut don't lie. your intuition may be giving you a fair warning.

either way though...you have good taste and i'd take it as a compliment if men hit on my woman. just feel it out.
 

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did you really think that once you started dating a hot girl that this wouldn't happen? Is there now some sort of stamp on her head that says dont bother to look at me?

Truth is that there is a good chance that everytime your girlfriend walks out her door some guy is going to be there either a) flirting with her, or b) checking her out and wishing he had the balls to flirt with her.

You cannot follow her around all day getting pissy and jealous. I don't care when this happens to me. I actually use it to my advantage. If I got the best looking girl at the bar I will send her up to get me free drinks. I've had dudes say some of the most moronic shi'ite I've ever heard about me to girls. At the end of the day she is coming home with me, if not oh well.

If you aren't ready for it than get out of it for your own sake though. It will not go away as long as she looks good. Hell, If I saw you two out together I would probably give her a look, not my fault I just have wandering eyes and an over-testosteronized brain.
 

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Trust. If you can't trust your girlfriend enough to know that she'll shoot down every single guy that hits on her then she shouldn't be your girlfriend. Now you just have to figure out if you don't trust her because she gave you a legit reason not to trust her, or if it's just because you are afraid that somebody else is going to bring to the table what you can't. If it's the latter you have to step back and get your self-esteem in check.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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