Guys，help me plz！！！

[Edison Chen]

I was talking to my former neighbor on the internet recently , and she was a very beautiful girl.We used to know each other, but we didn't communicate.I just added her to Facebook recently, and we had a great conversation on that.We've been semi-serious lately.Last week, however, she seemed a little upset because of my sexual tension.She didn't say it outright, but my social instincts detected a subtle change in her attitude.She is actually quite a conservative girl.She is only seventeen years old.Then I did something stupid. I texted her a blunt invitation.I said to her, "You made an appointment with your classmate this holiday. Should you make an appointment with me in the next holiday?"She asked me why, I told her to fall in love should meet more, not just on the Internet chat.I didn't really want to ask her out, actually.I just thought there was a change in her attitude, and I wanted to try it out by asking, even though I knew I'd probably make things worse.Then she asked me why I liked her, and I told her that it was too shallow to like her just for chatting online.She didn't reply. I realized that Dread was going too far, I gave in, I said I thought she gave me a good feeling when we were neighbours, but it's all a bit foggy now.(That could be seen as a disqualification.) When I asked her later what she meant by the half-confirmed hint, she played dumb and offered a far-fetched explanation that she just wanted to get to know her neighbor.I don't know what to do next, should I ghost her for a while and then text her?Although the exchange was very unpleasant, I did not say anything that diminished my value, nor did I explain or express my feelings to her. guys, do you think there's any chance I could go with this girl?All the communication and intersection between us is on the Internet.We never met each other since I move to another place 2 years ago.

Some people said men's attraction to women will only be locked, will not disappear, as long as there is no low value said.After I ghost her after a period of time，will she have a better attitude?Will my attractive decreased during the ghost period？

BTW， Can you recommend me some websites or books on how to learn game?I want to learn games by myself, because I think dating coaches are just learning from others too.I read a lot of books, and I visit a lot of websites, they are talking about the game related things, but none website or book told me the detailed game technique and system.

 

[Edison Chen]

There's no point in wondering if a girl likes you or not, but I think I'm attracted to her. Even though I didn't respond to her messages over the weekend, she still texted me the next two weekends (she was on campus, during which time she didn't have access to her cell phone) and asked me if we wanted to be together, and in a subtle way I said yes. I said, "Take your relationship seriously, when we are together." (I once joked about her changing boyfriends a lot.) She said that she thought she was serious when she was in a relationship, which I thought was self-qualifying. So what I should do now is ghost her for a while, and then continue to take it one step at a time?

 

[Edison Chen]

One thing I could not understand is if she doesn't attracted by me why she would texted me a lot on the Internet ，sometimes I even not reply her，but she still texted me in next few weeks.She even ask me whether I want to be together.But if she does attracted by me，why she doesn't want to hang out with me.

 

[derby1]

OP, Heres your medicine served cold.

First of all you are way to invested in this girl. She probably thinks if she gave you some, you would stalk her.

2ndly: You are her BETA male orbiter, much like a Sun, women have an orbit of men, they are spinning for validation.

Validation is more important than having a good time to a woman,

Women are "Time Pimps", they will pimp out your time, and give you nothing.

She keeps messaging you to check you still fancy her, she does the same thing to 100 guys that night, if it falls down to 98 it would destroy her, so she sends out the bait