"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guy with low self esteem approching girls Video

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm surprised none of you provided any detailed critiques of my daygame video approaches the OP put up.

You dudes are slippin.

At least I'm out in the streets doin big things. I think those girls all liked me even though I didn't get numbers I did manage to take pictures with them and cop a few email addresses.
 
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Hahah you're funny.

I would say he needs to fix the distance between the girls, talk slower, and use and stick to a more genuine opener. Biggest flaws IMO.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He should really get in shape first, then approach women. I think that looks don't matter as much when you have a good game but still you can't look completely hideous. The genetic looks usually don't matter as much but if you are out of shape, don't take care of yourself you are going to get rejected much much more.

I know that when I used to be younger I didn't use to take care of myself, I had greasy skin, messed up hair, dressed sloppy, and I was a maybe just an L4 for girls, but now as I began to take care of myself I'm easily an L7 or L8. Of course it also depends on a womans preference but still.

So take care of your body, not because of women but because of you! Feeling strong and in shape is the best thing you can experience. I know how miserable I feel if I don't do anything physical during the day, I have to do at least short exercise.
 
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