Guy offers me to have sex with his gf

[thursday]

Tell me what you would do....

I have a friend who lives out of state. His girlfriend lives in the same city as me, but i've never met her.

Basically he thinks she is prone to cheating and has offered to provide me with all the information i'll need to befriend her and sleep with her in order to prove her infidelity. All I have to do is keep quiet about his plan and get some proof of her cheating.

He says he will tell me where I can "bump into" her, and all of her likes, dislikes, character traits, things she likes in a guy and that he doesn't mind if I sleep with her, just so long as I get proof she cheats.

How would you feel about an offer like that?

 

[Mr. Sarcasm]

That guy was prolly thinking...

"I'll give him an offer he can't refuse..."

All jokes aside, I wouldn't do that. Not only could it compromise your friendship should you develop any feelings for her, but it's just WRONG. IMO at least. Sleeping with another man's girl - big NO to that!

 

[MaTuA]

She's not his girl if he has to pursuade you to fvck her. If she is really his gf then she may/or not on the circumstances surrounding their relationship. If you decide to make a try, don't fall for her. Get you're nvtt and be out the fvcking door! You know! Make sure you get proof of her clearly on camera phone/digital camera. And post a pic in the forum! Ya Dig!

 

[suavesuave]

if i were you ill charge him $150 for my services.

 

[Igetit!]

Wow. This is like some movie or tv show or something. Don't do it man.
Something about this seems fishy to me man. You said that he's doing this to test her loyality because she's prone to cheating. Well,if that's the case,then he shouldn't be with her in the first place. Actually,you could look at this two ways: He might be doing this to test her faithfulness,but he could also be doing it to see what kind of friend you are,to test your loyality to your friendship with him.

I'm sure you're smart enough to know that anything invovling three people when it somes to sex/intimacy is a bad idea,and NEVER results in anything good. I'd actually start to wonder what kind of friend you have that would attempt to put you in a situation like that.

 

[btownbuck2012]

That is some of the most retarded sh*t i've read in a while. This guy sounds like a moron to begin with.

I noticed you called him your friend. What kind of a friend is that? This guy has alterior motives or something. Do yourselve a favor and quite talking to that dude.

 

[decades]

life is stranger than fiction.

 

[btownbuck2012]

**quit**

 

[DonJuan11]

Tell me what you would do....

I have a friend who lives out of state. His girlfriend lives in the same city as me, but i've never met her.

he doesn't mind if I sleep with her, just so long as I get proof she cheats.

Translation: I'm too insecure about myself to trust my girlfriend. Even though I've seen her without her clothes on and have done everything to her, I still do not trust her. In fact, I do not trust her so much that I'm going to see if my best friend can see her naked and be inside of her, just so I can prove to myself that I don't trust her. Then, after I found out that my best friend has slept with my current girlfriend, I can confront her and yell at her that she cannot be trusted. After I prove this fact and make her cry and break with her, I will confront my friend who slept with her to also tell him he's a jerk and can't be trusted.

Sounds like you and your friend need a reality check.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I just don't see the point. If he is so sure she would cheat, break it off. Especially since its long distance which hardly ever works.

Honestly, what is the point of not breaking up immediately, because this stunt cannot prove anything useful. If she cheats, well he was already assuming that anyway. If she doesn't, does that prove she's not a cheater? Nope, maybe she's just not into the friend, since as we all know it takes more than knowing what a girl likes and dislikes to bed her (or else all guys in the friend zone would be boning their 'friends').

 

[DJVladdy]

Hey - I assume he is not a close friend.. otherwise why would you be friends with someone so f-ing weird

He's pretty much an acquaintance that you don't really care about right?

I would DEFINITELY go for it in your situation. Because I just imagined what kind of POWER I would feel as a result! ****ing another guy's girl - and him being OK with it... well he IS worried and still accepting and even encouraging these actions from you. DAMN

 

[librito]

Ok...I know what's going on....you're friend is not going out with that girl anymore. He doesn't like you either. for whatever reason. He knows that his ex girl is infected with a std and wants you to fvck her so you'll become infected too.

 

[Pathgen]

Don't get involved with that im sure its gonna end in an emotional mess that you don't need to deal with. Trust me emotional messes are worse than physical ones.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

If I was your friend. I would ask you to "spy" on her to see if she really is up to no good. But, since he wants you to fvck her. Why not work your dj skills on her.

 

[magickarl]

Solution:

Hit on her a little bit, and when she accepts the proposition of sex, take a picture of her and say "haha -- caught ya"

Your friend has his proof, you haven't compromised your friendship, and the cheating ***** is caught,

You can all live happily ever after, and after he and her break up, you have a good foundation started to bang this cheating slut.

 

[KontrollerX]

Alternatively he could be considering dumping her already but before he does that perhaps he wants to test your loyalty as a friend to see whether he should keep you around in his life either and hence this test.

Should you go through with it like some sap and bang her the guy will be done with both of you.

Kind of a win for you though as you get a hot piece of ass out of it but yeah if the guy is very important to you as a friend well then going through with this will likely spell the end of your friendship.

So think about what you want to do.

 

[MisterMcGee]

a guy ****testing a guy in order to see if he's a true friend? lol

 

[KontrollerX]

Totally.

I've heard of this type of testing happening before from both men and women to their friends.

Its not a cool thing to do but hey maybe its the only way to verify absolute loyalty if thats what a person wants in their friends.

Not a lot of people these days make sure their friends are trustworthy and loyal and because of that they end up with scumbags as friends who steal their money, their girl or something from them just as soon as they get the opportunity to do so.

Hell even supposedly loyal friends can turn on you when the chips are down for them. Check out Str8ups posts for tons of stories about how supposedly life long friends have ripped him off when they needed some fast cash.

 

[thursday]

Thanks for the advice guys.

Basically the guy is a decent friend but not too close. He asked me because he thinks i'm her type. I asked him what he would think if I went through with it and succeeded and he said he didn't care - he just wanted proof of her cheating, that I was just doing a job for him.

 

[Igetit!]

Just doing a job for him? So he "hired" you,huh? So what's the verdict? Are you going to do it,or not? Or are you still deciding?