Guy marries this girl. She changes her last name from his to hers. Disrespectful?

[_sideways_]

He's a long time buddy. Since we were kids. She's not from this country but she speaks English and is assimilated.
I just added her on fb so as to be friends and just be a part of their lives.
So she up and changes to her last name the other day.
I thought that to be very telling of her views about what it means to be married and how little she thinks of my buddy.

Since it is a public forum she is telling all her friends in that circle that she is free to do what she wants. I mean, we are all free and marriage doesn't stop that.
If anything its a slap in the face.

I told my friend what a low life move that is on her part cuz I've seen females talk trash their husbands and totally play them.

I probably should stay clear since its not my life. But isn't that a red flag? Or at least something that shouldn't go unchecked?

I'd love to hear some wise words on this. If this happened to you how would you react?

 

[_sideways_]

Also, I mentioned she's not from the u.s. cuz they married fairly quick and I saw it as an opportunity for her to get green card. She's HB 6.
So this dude can do better. Has done better. I smelled something fishy and then her fb thing added to it.

 

[Yewki]

Changing last name > refusing to change last name > changing last name then reverting it back

Yeah, that's pretty bad. It's your friend's life though all you can do is warn him and hope for the best

 

[LiveFreeX]

Since it is a public forum she is telling all her friends in that circle that she is free to do what she wants

She must be Asian? They don't have this over there.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She must be Asian? They don't have this over there.

I actually married someone who refused to change their name after marriage. Also after the ring slipped on her finger she stopped cooking, helping out and eventually stopped fvcking me. It was some BS/feminist crap.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Good thing I never bought my wife a ring.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Good thing I never bought my wife a ring.

It literally was like the movie "war of the roses" with Michael Douglas. We were both on KILL every day for years. She utilized all social and system leverages against me, and actually busted me upside the head and called the cops.

 

[LiveFreeX]

It literally was like the movie "war of the roses" with Michael Douglas. We were both on KILL every day for years. She utilized all social and system leverages against me, and actually busted me upside the head and called the cops.

You poor soul, I hope one day you will be able to travel to the Thai mecca and receive a holy blessing.

 

[LiveFreeX]

I should add that yesterday my wife was spoon feeding me supper. This is something she likes to do, who am I to judge... anyway we were sitting in a restaurant, basically she was sitting beside me, not across, sort of in the middle of the restaurant which had a fair amount of people in it. This guy from an adjacent table, who looked absolutely disgusted, said "If you are going to do that, can you do it outside please" and made a sound like "yech" or something. My wife just laughed, did some dismissive motion with her hand and continued on cutting up my dinner. His own wife was also sitting there with her mouth agape. I actually hadn't noticed the restaurant looking at us until he interjected. I made sure to look in their direction every now and then and smile. I have pics of a different time when she was doing this, I'll post them when I get around to bluring out the faces.

So trust me when I say this, there are women out there that are good people and will treat you right, just not in Canada.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You poor soul, I hope one day you will be able to travel to the Thai mecca and receive a holy blessing.

Don't have to go all the way there. That hell lasted me from 2004-2009. We were divorced legally in 2011. It completely stripped my esteem to the bone. We had children too and they were used as pawns in a devils game.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I should add that yesterday my wife was spoon feeding me supper. This is something she likes to do, who am I to judge... anyway we were sitting in a restaurant, basically she was sitting beside me, not across, sort of in the middle of the restaurant which had a fair amount of people in it. This guy from an adjacent table, who looked absolutely disgusted, said "If you are going to do that, can you do it outside please" and made a sound like "yech" or something. My wife just laughed, did some dismissive motion with her hand and continued on cutting up my dinner. His own wife was also sitting there with her mouth agape. I actually hadn't noticed the restaurant looking at us until he interjected. I made sure to look in their direction every now and then and smile. I have pics of a different time when she was doing this, I'll post them when I get around to bluring out the faces.

So trust me when I say this, there are women out there that are good people and will treat you right, just not in Canada.

Dang dude, I just read this story! They were talking about wives fixing their mans plates on another website. Some people still like to give their man this form of respect.

 

[RangerMIke]

Word of advice. When you get married, sooner or later you will face this in some shape form or fashion, depending on the cultural upbringing of the woman, and her family background, it will take different forms or happen sooner.

As soon as you are NOT giving her what she is looking for, she WILL start looking elsewhere. She can not help it, it is genetically encoded in her to seek out men that meet HER NEEDS, whatever those needs happen to be. Since women are emotional, sometimes her needs shift back and forth. But she will have core values that she will always snap back to. If she is financially motivated, and you take a big it in the market and lose a lot of money, and have to take a pay cut, you are IMMEDIATELY less attractive to her. If she is attractive and there is another man that shows her interest who is better of financially, she will fvck him. Sorry... this is reality. If she is motivated by looks and a strong body, and you end up in a wheelchair, you are TOAST. She will be cheating on you I guarantee.

In my case, my wife was motivated by security and need for direct emotional support. After 9-11, I got called back and forth on active duty and sent to Afghanistan, then later Iraq, back to Afghanistan... etc etc. Many reservists when thought the same thing. She just could not take it, the straw was when I was wounded in a roadside bomb. As it turned out, I was lucky, and I was pretty much rebuilt good as new, but at the time she didn't know what was going to happen, and she jumped back on the c0ck carousel. Look... I don't blame her... she's just a woman, she can not help it. I'm not angry about any of this, I just divorced her.

When women do things that take you off center or ruin you happiness, then dump her. If your buddy is upset with what she's done with her name, he should divorce her NOW. Getting upset and angry with women is pointless. Just fvcking walk away, if you are standing in the middle of a fire and you are getting burned, with no way to put out the fire, are you going to stand there yelling at the fire until is burns you to death< or are you going to get out.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Word of advice. When you get married, sooner or later you will face this in some shape form or fashion, depending on the cultural upbringing of the woman, and her family background, it will take different forms or happen sooner.

As soon as you are NOT giving her what she is looking for, she WILL start looking elsewhere. She can not help it, it is genetically encoded in her to seek out men that meet HER NEEDS, whatever those needs happen to be. Since women are emotional, sometimes her needs shift back and forth. But she will have core values that she will always snap back to. If she is financially motivated, and you take a big it in the market and lose a lot of money, and have to take a pay cut, you are IMMEDIATELY less attractive to her. If she is attractive and there is another man that shows her interest who is better of financially, she will fvck him. Sorry... this is reality. If she is motivated by looks and a strong body, and you end up in a wheelchair, you are TOAST. She will be cheating on you I guarantee.

In my case, my wife was motivated by security and need for direct emotional support. After 9-11, I got called back and forth on active duty and sent to Afghanistan, then later Iraq, back to Afghanistan... etc etc. Many reservists when thought the same thing. She just could not take it, the straw was when I was wounded in a roadside bomb. As it turned out, I was lucky, and I was pretty much rebuilt good as new, but at the time she didn't know what was going to happen, and she jumped back on the c0ck carousel. Look... I don't blame her... she's just a woman, she can not help it. I'm not angry about any of this, I just divorced her.

When women do things that take you off center or ruin you happiness, then dump her. If your buddy is upset with what she's done with her name, he should divorce her NOW. Getting upset and angry with women is pointless. Just fvcking walk away, if you are standing in the middle of a fire and you are getting burned, with no way to put out the fire, are you going to stand there yelling at the fire until is burns you to death< or are you going to get out.

Yeah, but some women are humble and loyal like a man. I know that you speak for a large percentage of them though.

 

[Yewki]

I should add that yesterday my wife was spoon feeding me supper. This is something she likes to do, who am I to judge... anyway we were sitting in a restaurant, basically she was sitting beside me, not across, sort of in the middle of the restaurant which had a fair amount of people in it. This guy from an adjacent table, who looked absolutely disgusted, said "If you are going to do that, can you do it outside please" and made a sound like "yech" or something. My wife just laughed, did some dismissive motion with her hand and continued on cutting up my dinner. His own wife was also sitting there with her mouth agape. I actually hadn't noticed the restaurant looking at us until he interjected. I made sure to look in their direction every now and then and smile. I have pics of a different time when she was doing this, I'll post them when I get around to bluring out the faces.

So trust me when I say this, there are women out there that are good people and will treat you right, just not in Canada.

Doesn't make sense. You must have been doing something else, otherwise no one would care your wife was spoon feeding you much less ask you to leave

 

[LiveFreeX]

You've obviously never been to Canada, land of the easily offended feminists.

I know what you are talking about Ranger but I've been out of the country for over 12 years and vetted tons of these b1tches for all those traits. This one isn't motivated by money, attraction... or any of that. I know because she often works when I don't, I've been deathly sick and she was there the whole way. I had to stay home 6 months at one point and she diligently went to work and came home, pre-cooked meals... the only deal is that I don't cheat or I'll wake up with a knife in my back. My wife just wants a family that isn't going to sell her or send her away. I made a post about the kind of woman you're talking about..

3rd world princesses are not much different than 1st world women. You need to get POOR women as in, ones from poverty... not 'pretend' poverty either, they need to have suffered back breaking hardships. TRUE poverty builds character.

 

[Yewki]

You've obviously never been to Canada, land of the easily offended feminists.

I guess? If I saw a woman spoon feeding a man in a restaurant, if anything I would assume the guy had some type of special needs

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Doesn't make sense. You must have been doing something else, otherwise no one would care your wife was spoon feeding you much less ask you to leave

I'm told Canada is much more feministic society than America, so it might have caught disgust of onlookers... That might be what it was.

 

[_sideways_]

So we agree she's not to be trusted?

 

[LiveFreeX]

Lol, anyway, what country is she from? I don't know might be nothing... watch what she does with her marital status. Maybe no one can search for her on fb or something I dunno... its not really your business anyway. One man's hb 6 is another man's 10.

If I saw a woman spoon feeding a man in a restaurant, if anything I would assume the guy had some type of special needs

Lol, well you could say I have special needs... I married her. Yewki which of the 6 genders do you identify as?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So we agree she's not to be trusted?

Bro, it's a serious power "game" to fvck with the last name. It chops your balls off, I know how it feels. And it doesn't end there. Accept her communication thru her actions and move on.