"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joe45 said:
lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
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Well if I was dating a guy. I would shoot myself.

Repeatedly.



I'm kind of a homophobe when it comes to having intimate relationships with gay guys.
 
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Meh who cares if he's gay?

And yeah I'd dump a girl if she lied to me repeatedly especially after being involved with a Cluster B Histrionic Personality Disordered girl who by the very nature of her disorder was a pathological liar.

Basically if someone lies to you a bunch of times even about trivial things you can be sure there are more and bigger lies to come.
 
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joe45 said:
lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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