"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guy lied about his age and skooling would u dump him

joe45

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lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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joe45 said:
lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
Well if I was dating a guy. I would shoot myself.

Repeatedly.



I'm kind of a homophobe when it comes to having intimate relationships with gay guys.
 

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Meh who cares if he's gay?

And yeah I'd dump a girl if she lied to me repeatedly especially after being involved with a Cluster B Histrionic Personality Disordered girl who by the very nature of her disorder was a pathological liar.

Basically if someone lies to you a bunch of times even about trivial things you can be sure there are more and bigger lies to come.
 

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joe45 said:
lets say u meet this guy off the net-seems like a normal guy and what not-later on you find out hes 2 yrs younger he 25 not 23 and ur 21, he told you he went to university-which u need a high % wise to enter -SFU but really is attending a community college kwanten. would u dump him or would u say ah who cares and continue no biggie. lets say ur dating him for approx 2 mnths. would u continue dating him or say forgot about it.
Do you have something you wan't to share with us?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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