Hello! I'm 19 and I'm in university. In high school I used to be the shy guy. I'm in sales part-time in university and I've changed quite a bit since my teens. But I still get confused a lot.
Last year I had a massive crush on this one girl who wasn't interested. We were really close friends. This year I recognized my mistake and I'm trying to be interested in a lot of girls at the same time, so I don't have any really strong feelings for 1 particular girl. I've been trying to go downtown with different groups of friends, too.
Here's my main issue right now:
There's one girl I've been interested in for a while, who's now the best friend of the girl I liked last year. She likes playing mind games though (it looks like that to me), and today I was telling her funny stories about the weekend. I mentioned that the girl I met looked like someone I knew, and she thought I meant her. So we had this conversation that made me blush like crazy (I hate getting put on the spot) where she was trying to see how much I liked her. There's a long story of drama with us I guess, but I'm still sort of interested in her I think. But I'm confused, and I bet she's wondering how much I like her. I'm just trying not to fall into the trap of apologizing for things and acting like a doormat, I always do that eventually. And I'm getting really bad mixed signals from her. :/
Another point, related:
I met a girl downtown that I thought was pretty cute. There was her and her best friend. I was talking to them with a buddy of mine. They wanted to go dancing, we went and split from our regular group. We were with them from about 10:30-3:30am? My girl seemed shy but she liked me when I was dancing, and eventually we ended up making out for a bit and then went back to dancing. I did some awkward things but she was pretty awkward too. It was a fun night. When I asked for her number, she took my phone and sent herself a friend request on Facebook. But she hasn't accepted yet? Lol, why would she give me her full name and FR on facebook then? I said some turn-off things I guess to her (like bringing up other girl's names, I know I'm stupid) but she was still sorta interested? My friend's girl accepted his FR when she did the same thing, and they weren't doing much (he's shy).
EDIT: Oh, and there's a lot more. It's annoying that I'm talking to easily over 10 girls, but not actually talking to them.
Last year I had a massive crush on this one girl who wasn't interested. We were really close friends. This year I recognized my mistake and I'm trying to be interested in a lot of girls at the same time, so I don't have any really strong feelings for 1 particular girl. I've been trying to go downtown with different groups of friends, too.
Here's my main issue right now:
There's one girl I've been interested in for a while, who's now the best friend of the girl I liked last year. She likes playing mind games though (it looks like that to me), and today I was telling her funny stories about the weekend. I mentioned that the girl I met looked like someone I knew, and she thought I meant her. So we had this conversation that made me blush like crazy (I hate getting put on the spot) where she was trying to see how much I liked her. There's a long story of drama with us I guess, but I'm still sort of interested in her I think. But I'm confused, and I bet she's wondering how much I like her. I'm just trying not to fall into the trap of apologizing for things and acting like a doormat, I always do that eventually. And I'm getting really bad mixed signals from her. :/
Another point, related:
I met a girl downtown that I thought was pretty cute. There was her and her best friend. I was talking to them with a buddy of mine. They wanted to go dancing, we went and split from our regular group. We were with them from about 10:30-3:30am? My girl seemed shy but she liked me when I was dancing, and eventually we ended up making out for a bit and then went back to dancing. I did some awkward things but she was pretty awkward too. It was a fun night. When I asked for her number, she took my phone and sent herself a friend request on Facebook. But she hasn't accepted yet? Lol, why would she give me her full name and FR on facebook then? I said some turn-off things I guess to her (like bringing up other girl's names, I know I'm stupid) but she was still sorta interested? My friend's girl accepted his FR when she did the same thing, and they weren't doing much (he's shy).
EDIT: Oh, and there's a lot more. It's annoying that I'm talking to easily over 10 girls, but not actually talking to them.
I'm a bad dancer but I try haha. This girl told me before that I overanalyze a lot, and "there's probably some girls you've turned off because of it". I have to work on that.