"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guy harrassing gf trying to get her to leave me for him? just **** him up?

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I'd fvck him up. Gotta teach losers like that a lesson. There's no reason why he should be harassing your g/f. I can see if he hits on her once, but repeadly is just asking for an a$$ beating.

Oh, and I highly doubt this poster is a don juan (no offense, they're just rare). So, since he isn't, he can fight, and i approve of the fighting :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Enjin, lol, I hope you are a black guy talking about fvckin nyggas up.

And if you are, let me tell you, I am a black guy too, and it's this stupid stuff that gets us behind bars and not behind desks. Let me tell you something.

First off, if you have to worry about your girl cheating on you:
1. You don't know if you are attractive enough. (Insecurity)
2. You are not sure if she is attracted to you enough. (Lack of skill)
3. She has shown you a sign, that if a guy "seduced" her a certain way, he could hit. (Lack of quality, committed girl)

Here's the backbreaker.........

How long have you known her? And how long did it take before you became a couple? Too many times we rush into relationships with women that we should never be in a relationship with, but just use as a fvck partner or social proof. Basically, friends with benefits.

Second question, does she love you? You know this not by what she says, but the gut feeling you get by what she does, how she treats you, how she presents you to her family and friends, her praises to you, that non verbal stuff that makes you think, she loves no one else like this. Now, it doesn't stop there. After you get that gut feeling, don't rush into a relationship, just stay friends with benefits for a while. What you are doing is testing her to see IF she is real or just fronting. If it's real, she can wait, if it's not, she'll rot.

Guys, understand this, we don't NEED relationships, WOMEN DO. We really, honestly, just need pvssy! Being in a relationship with a woman is a GIFT to them. We provide protection, excitement, etc., etc., to them, all they can really give us that we can't give ourselves is pvssy. Oh yeah, and a child, but we aren't looking for that right now, are we?

So don't just jump into a relationship, jump into some pvssy. Then, after time, test the bytch. See if she is real and for YOU, those are the bytches you be in relationship with. Until then, stay friends with benefits. This saves you from her cheating on you, dumping you, or leaving you feeling like Nick Lashey is right now after his bytch dumped him. It's sad guys but we bring it on ourselves.
 
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you guys dont understand

hes harrasing his girlfriend

when she even says NO!

its different when a guy is tryin to pick up ur girl at the club and a guy is Always on ur girl when she even sayys no... there is only a limit that this can go on, its keep going and going until someone ends it

tell him straight up... straight as you can, to his face not the phone, in a respectful way.. MOSt of the time it works, only if u be respect and straight up

if he doesnt listen or take it the wrong way.. u say ur a laid back guy and have no problem fighting.. so there u go, u shouldnt have a problem of teaching him a lesson.

if ur in a club and theres a guy whos tryin to hook up wit ur girl thats different. u canwatch him and make fun of him and his screw ups but when guy is harrsing your girl. feeding her stupid **** and wnna bang her, who knows when he will even rape her. shEit can hit the fan fast man you have no idea.

i would end this A-SAP
 
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Oh yeah, one more thing.

Why in the FVCK, is your girl talking to a guy, that puts you down constantly, ANYWAY? Seems that if he is doing that she would stand up for you, and tell him DONT TALK ABOUT MY BABY LIKE THAT! And tell HIM, to fvck off. You do know, that's all she has to do and this thing is over right? You kick a nygga's azz, when she has told him to fvck off, and he is forcing himself onto her kind of in a rapist or stalker type of way. Call the cops or kick his azz. But more times, when she seriously tells him to fvck off, and means it, (you know how most times with girls, no means yes), the guy would back off. Seriously, check yo girl bro, or re-read the post I posted, and stay friends with benefits. I don't think this girl is sold out to you bro, and all I'm trying to do is save you from the heartache down the road.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuanForever said:
Enjin, lol, I hope you are a black guy talking about fvckin nyggas up.

And if you are, let me tell you, I am a black guy too, and it's this stupid stuff that gets us behind bars and not behind desks. Let me tell you something.

First off, if you have to worry about your girl cheating on you:
1. You don't know if you are attractive enough. (Insecurity)
2. You are not sure if she is attracted to you enough. (Lack of skill)
3. She has shown you a sign, that if a guy "seduced" her a certain way, he could hit. (Lack of quality, committed girl)

Here's the backbreaker.........

How long have you known her? And how long did it take before you became a couple? Too many times we rush into relationships with women that we should never be in a relationship with, but just use as a fvck partner or social proof. Basically, friends with benefits.

Second question, does she love you? You know this not by what she says, but the gut feeling you get by what she does, how she treats you, how she presents you to her family and friends, her praises to you, that non verbal stuff that makes you think, she loves no one else like this. Now, it doesn't stop there. After you get that gut feeling, don't rush into a relationship, just stay friends with benefits for a while. What you are doing is testing her to see IF she is real or just fronting. If it's real, she can wait, if it's not, she'll rot.

Guys, understand this, we don't NEED relationships, WOMEN DO. We really, honestly, just need pvssy! Being in a relationship with a woman is a GIFT to them. We provide protection, excitement, etc., etc., to them, all they can really give us that we can't give ourselves is pvssy. Oh yeah, and a child, but we aren't looking for that right now, are we?

So don't just jump into a relationship, jump into some pvssy. Then, after time, test the bytch. See if she is real and for YOU, those are the bytches you be in relationship with. Until then, stay friends with benefits. This saves you from her cheating on you, dumping you, or leaving you feeling like Nick Lashey is right now after his bytch dumped him. It's sad guys but we bring it on ourselves.
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wow great post bro

props,

i love the past paragraph, very true.. all we want is the POotang pie,
we are the men, we can go out to anywhere and talk to any girl

while the girls are have to wait for the man with the balls, they're the ones are waiting and waiting. and remember guys girls act on their feelings! emotions! if you make them feel mushy, they will sex u. if u make them feel great they'll seXx you. if u make them angry then happy. they're will make sexx u!

Women, all they do is Talk, thats ALL they can do.. men.. They love action everything we do is based on actions... walkin up... creatin rapport.. making dates..

so what happens when we master in waht all women do best at?
think about it
 
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Okay, if she has told him no, and seriously means it, call him and tell him to back the fvck off. If he doesnt, whoop his azz. Just whoop his azz where there's not many folks around because I am so fvckin tired of guys going to jail over a girl. It's just fvckin retarded. If she would tell him to back the fvck off and don't talk to me anymore, the guy would not do this. Either she is leading him on, saying no when she means yes, or something of that nature. In my experience, when I was in serious relationships, guys didn't come up and hit on my girl or behind my back because SHE BACKED THEM OFF. Come guys, if you approach a girl and feel in your gut she HATES YOU, would you still be persistant? I don't think so.
 
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DonJuanForever said:
Guys, understand this, we don't NEED relationships, WOMEN DO. We really, honestly, just need pvssy! Being in a relationship with a woman is a GIFT to them. We provide protection, excitement, etc., etc., to them, all they can really give us that we can't give ourselves is pvssy. Oh yeah, and a child, but we aren't looking for that right now, are we?
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I really don't get it. I don't have this overwhelming need to get laid all the time.

The only time i really really want it when i am in a good relationship with a woman and she's awesome in bed.. at that point i crave it all the time and i'm sexual as hell. But otherwise it's just another hobby that's nice to do once in a while.

I don't think being in a relationship is a gift to them for me. She provides me excitement and all that too. It's not like here's all this stuff you get all i want is a constant stream of sex. A woman provides me plenty beyond that that i really like to have even though i don't need it. It's more of trade with them. I give you these things and you give me all these other things in return... and we're whole and it's a great time.

Oh well most other guys it's probably alright to think like that. I must be afc for having feelings and stuff.
 
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DonJuanForever said:
Enjin, lol, I hope you are a black guy talking about fvckin nyggas up.

And if you are, let me tell you, I am a black guy too, and it's this stupid stuff that gets us behind bars and not behind desks. Let me tell you something.

First off, if you have to worry about your girl cheating on you:
1. You don't know if you are attractive enough. (Insecurity)
2. You are not sure if she is attracted to you enough. (Lack of skill)
3. She has shown you a sign, that if a guy "seduced" her a certain way, he could hit. (Lack of quality, committed girl)

Here's the backbreaker.........

How long have you known her? And how long did it take before you became a couple? Too many times we rush into relationships with women that we should never be in a relationship with, but just use as a fvck partner or social proof. Basically, friends with benefits.

Second question, does she love you? You know this not by what she says, but the gut feeling you get by what she does, how she treats you, how she presents you to her family and friends, her praises to you, that non verbal stuff that makes you think, she loves no one else like this. Now, it doesn't stop there. After you get that gut feeling, don't rush into a relationship, just stay friends with benefits for a while. What you are doing is testing her to see IF she is real or just fronting. If it's real, she can wait, if it's not, she'll rot.

Guys, understand this, we don't NEED relationships, WOMEN DO. We really, honestly, just need pvssy! Being in a relationship with a woman is a GIFT to them. We provide protection, excitement, etc., etc., to them, all they can really give us that we can't give ourselves is pvssy. Oh yeah, and a child, but we aren't looking for that right now, are we?

So don't just jump into a relationship, jump into some pvssy. Then, after time, test the bytch. See if she is real and for YOU, those are the bytches you be in relationship with. Until then, stay friends with benefits. This saves you from her cheating on you, dumping you, or leaving you feeling like Nick Lashey is right now after his bytch dumped him. It's sad guys but we bring it on ourselves.
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wow man. very insightful. I liket he 1,2 3. Honestly, I dont lack either looks or skill. Therefore, if she indulges him, I wont feel bad because its a low quality girl and better in the end.

Honestly tho, I think she is high quality and she is just being creeped out by this dude. She likes attention, and likes for guys to fawn over her. Its natural for hott girls to do that. I would say that she is into me based on how basically what you said. she tells her family I saved her life (which I did, long story).

She is a sweet, caring, considerate girl. I've known her for about 5 months and we've been together now just over a month. We were attracted to each other from the beginning. I competeted with multiple guys for her at the time... it was almost like a videogame haha.

I am cool with guys hitting on her. Its not a big deal. I just laugh it off. Honestly, not bragging, but I would consider myself an alpha male. I can shrug most of these chumps off. Its just annoying when some lame, 3rd rate guy is trying to feed your gf whom you care about loads of bs.

Honestly, I would probably get serious jail time if I did anything (after certain amount of martial art training, your body is considered a deadly weapon for those of you that dont know).

and that is why... I'm pelting that beeeyitch with a rotten apple!

girls are hard to figure out. I just cant see her leaving me for anyone thats not famous.

you guys are awesome :rockon:
 
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dude i'm sure that wherever u live, there are guns. and bullets too... right? BUT i dont know... based on your post i think that u r in long term with this girl... THIS IS THE REAL PROBLEM
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what is a real problem? LTR? hell no. I'm not looking for just *****. I guess I'm just atypical. This site is full of different types of guys looking for different things. Thats just what I'm looking for.
 
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Why are you worried about this guy? So he talks to her and wants her...you can't just go beat him up for it.

If he is harassing her, then take him aside and have a talk. Essentially make it knows that you are not going to ignore this and let it continue. You're going to let him know that he needs to back off and reconsider his actions immediately.
 
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