She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Because you're a guy. She's a girl.Ll Principe said:Now, why isnt my girl doing what I would do?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's called competition. What do you do when you have competition?Ll Principe said:What must I expect/do?
Another guy is moving in on your girl. Obviously, you need to do something. What you do, however, defines you.Ll Principe said:HAHA i know where you getting at, you trying to make it out as if I must do something?
It doesn't matter whether she's responsible. What does matter are results, and that's something you can control.Ll Principe said:Okay, DOES The girl not have a responsiblity to tell this guy to f-off though?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
First off, don't let this bother you at all. Unless this chicks is a total idiot, she is just laughing at this jealous loser. He's a loser because he has to try to neg-hit on you TO HER. Pathetic. I would be questioning why she's even friends with this tard.Ll Principe said:If a guy tells a girl that you are bad/player stuff like that yet you prove to her that you not and she eventually believes you but this other guy still persists to DRILL her with bull of information, is it not so that the girl should re-asses her friendship with this guy because clearly he isnt being a "friend" to her and she should tell him to either stop or leave her alone? Clearly the guy has alternative motives.
Ll Principe said:The Business Man: The guy and I have already had 2 arguments/fights, plenty of threating from both sides... Yet she still keeps him in her life, i moved in last week and told her I cant speak to her or be with her anymore as she broke my heart and let this guy come between us, she admitted she let him come between us but wouldnt let it happen again, then I proceeded to ask her if she still speaks to him , she said yes, I asked why? She said "Just becoz" , for some reason she is clinging onto this guys "friendship" she is adamant she doesnt like him, but wants him as a friend.
So by me being finished with her, was that the right thing to do? Till she matures and realizes her mistake one day?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.