So I don't really have any women platonic friends myself, besides the girls who are my friend's girlfriends or my friend's wifes and maybe one who's a friend of the family. But other then that, I'm aware there are some girls who have the "guy friends" my cousin is one of them. So one of the girls I'm dating, seeing, whatever. She has more guy friends than girl friends, some college friends, some just guys who she smokes with. So last night we're out eating dinner and she says she has a friend coming into town this weekend, and then says that he's from out of state and they were friends in college and that she had been blowing him off for a while about hanging out but finally said she would. She then said that he's staying at her house, but that she said he can only crash there one night and has to find some other place to stay the rest of the weekend.
I haven't met this guy or any of the other guy friends, she had said before that if I ever did meet any of the guy friends she hangs out with that I would see theres definantly nothing to worry about as far as them being her type or attractive or whatever. I didn't say anything about the guy staying at her place, the fact that she told me and didn't try and hide it makes me think its nothing, and honestly if a girl wants to screw around they will do it regardless so I really don't worry about things like that.
What do you guys think about this? The only thing it makes me wonder is if I said to her that I had a girl coming into town I was friends with and she was staying the night with me, how would she act about it. She's 27 BTW if that matters, and we've been seeing each other a couple months, she's said she wants to move out of the casual dating with me and into something more serious. I guess I never really laid guidelines out or boundaries. I've never asked about exclusiveness but she's brought it up a lot and said she doesn't see anyone else and hopes I don't either. So, that being said. Thoughts gentleman?
I haven't met this guy or any of the other guy friends, she had said before that if I ever did meet any of the guy friends she hangs out with that I would see theres definantly nothing to worry about as far as them being her type or attractive or whatever. I didn't say anything about the guy staying at her place, the fact that she told me and didn't try and hide it makes me think its nothing, and honestly if a girl wants to screw around they will do it regardless so I really don't worry about things like that.
What do you guys think about this? The only thing it makes me wonder is if I said to her that I had a girl coming into town I was friends with and she was staying the night with me, how would she act about it. She's 27 BTW if that matters, and we've been seeing each other a couple months, she's said she wants to move out of the casual dating with me and into something more serious. I guess I never really laid guidelines out or boundaries. I've never asked about exclusiveness but she's brought it up a lot and said she doesn't see anyone else and hopes I don't either. So, that being said. Thoughts gentleman?
