"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guy claims relationships with BPD women totally acheviable

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zapp Brannigan

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It always happens like this. A guy thinks that they can make it work with a BPD, and ignores the warnings people give online and in person about the dangers of it. They're jaded by their affection to the chick, and think they can make the odds work in their favor.

A little bit into the relationship before the chick revils her true self the guy starts to act all smug like "Oh you just didn't know what you were doing. I've been with Roxy for three months." Then in the end they end up learning the hard way that it just doesn't work.

Out of all the advice easily found on the internet more guys need to pay attention to it.
 

usernamedox11

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captain55 said:
Do all borderlines cheat ?
my ex BPD did not cheat on me but she did cheat on her ex with me, recent BPD i had been dealing with till she painted me black did not seem to cheat on her past BFs but admitted she could see herself cheating

Girls are girls. I guarantee almost every girl that’s attractive has cheated at one point or another. BPD is just a label. They’re not difficult to date, I’ve done it multiple times.
Author is delusional...sounds like he just had flings with these BPD women
 

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That's what they all say..."keep her as a fvck buddy"..."care less"..."don't get invested"...blah...blah...blah. Until they find themselves obsessed over her one day and that's when her hooks are deep inside you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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applegoo said:
He says as long as you care less and set clear boundaries, you can make good relationships out of BPD women

Setting boundaries with a BPD? LMAO

BPD's don't know the first thing about boundaries. They break boundaries all the time.

BPD's have the brain capacity of a 3-5 year old child. They are totally incapable of following anything.

Boundaries don't work on women anyway when they choose to break the terms.

You can have a "relationship" with a BPD for a couple of months. After that it is doomed to fail.

Proceed at your own risk having a BPD nut for a girllfriend.
 

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From the site:

"The reason why BPD women get so much negativity is really because most of the men dating them are not at the level of experience they need to be at. In this day and age, dating & relationships are just very difficult. There are only a small percentage of people that have the knowledge and skills to date people with BPD – people like me."


I had an experience with one. That was enough. If this dumbass wants to seek out relationships with borderline psychotic, damaged beyond repair, crazy women more power to him. I don't want the knowledge or skills that it requires to date one of these lunatics. I want to avoid them like the plague.
 
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