Guy chats me up after soccer practice even though he rejected me from facebook

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Samwild

Don Juan

Jun 6, 2013

Personally, this guy is smart in that Facebook has personally led to more breakups and couple confusion since inseption. Outside of that, quit spamming the creepy vibe by thinking his actions are creepy. Talk to the man like a human being, feel out his vibe. Spit game if he's vibing with you and go play in the mud or something. That facebook request thing didn't even happen far as I'm concerned. Feels like a chick that didn't pick up during a phone call and it went to voicemail.

YMMV, pull trigger hard.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.